Author Thread: Curious on the mindset of women
Admin


Curious on the mindset of women
Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 03:00 AM

Help me out ladies if you will be so kind... I see alot of profiles of women in their mid to late 30's through their late 40's. In many of these profiles their desired age ranges are 10-15 years younger than they are and 1-3 older or not older at all but younger only. Now though I expect to hear the old "it's a preference jag" I'm looking for the honest answers. To me it seems that women, but mainly women here in the U.S, do not desire a strong, mature man in the Lord but are looking for a kid to train, to mold an immature guy into what they want a guy to be. Does it make women feel better about themselves if they can find a younger man or even a boy that will show an interest in them? Common ladies, if there is no shame about the directness of these questions, please share a bit of insite...

Post Reply



View Profile
History
Curious on the mindset of women
Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 06:08 AM

Hey,



Semper Fidelis�I have a Book for you -- "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.



It about being able to Express Your Love to Your Wife (or GirlFriend) in such a way that She Will Understand.



He calls it The Five Love Languages. Most Women will have One or Two of these as their Top Choices (but all should be used)



� Words of Affirmation



Words that Compliment and Affirm. That Builds Self Image and Confidence.



� Quality Time



Doing Things Together and Giving Her some Undivided Attention.



� Gifts



They don�t necessarily have to be Expensive to send a Powerful Message of Love�Flowers or my Favorite � a �I am at Your Command� Card � is an Inexpensive way of Saying �I Love You�.

Forgetting a birthday or anniversary will leave your Wife or Girlfriend feeling neglected and unloved.



� Acts of Service



Vacuuming, Cooking Dinner, Foot Massage, Watching Oprah with Her (Toughest One!). But�they need to be done with a �Smile� on your Face (and Mean It).



Physical Touch



Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.





Sorry...didn't mean to "HiJaCk" the Thread.:bouncy:

Post Reply

Page : 1 2 3 4