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HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 09:01 AM

Ladies....



If we're supposed to be sisters in Christ, we should be like family. We should look out for one another and not be critical.



So look...don't judge me for what I'm about to ask.



The only difference from me and most others is I'm bold enough to say what they think.



With that said...



Is pleasuring oneself wrong? Please read between the lines here because I don't think I can type the M word.



If it is wrong, what do you single ladies do on those lonely nights where you may feel vulnerable?



And don't get all cute on me and act like I'm the only one who has questions and goes through this! Thanks!

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 02:00 PM

Sitting there and looking pretty is only half what I like about you! ;-)

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 04:00 PM

HolyGhostgirl, Both this one and the one you posted in ask a guy are VERY inappropriate topics for a Christian single dating site!

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 05:26 PM

At least she didn't ask about Instead/Diva.

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 08:43 PM

Personally, I am much more curious as opposed to being offended. I am curious to see what Holyghostgirl's response will be to the many thoughtful responses she's received. That alone can reveal much about the intentions of one's post...

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 10:40 PM

Instead- Diva was inappropriate too, Cobbler. ( good to see ya back)

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 12:15 AM

Thank you for being brave enough to ask such a question. We are a family, and as with many other things we struggle with as Christians living in this world, we should not be afraid to voice concerns or ask for advice on matters of sexual purity from our brothers and sisters. After all, we ARE all adults here.



This does not make us bad people, or bad Christians, to have temptations. It just means we are human and none of us is perfect or immune to such things. We all struggle from time to time with sexual sins and bondages...it's simply that some of us are brave enough to admit it to others.





"The Bondage Breaker" by Neil T Anderson

"Victory Over The Darkness" by Neil T Anderson

"Freedom From Fear & Anxiety" by Neil T Anderson

Sexual - "A Way of Escape" by Neil T Anderson

"Winning The Battle Within" by Neil T Anderson





I highly recommend his books for anyone struggling with habitual sins and bondages.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 07:35 AM

Just for clarification, I don�t think this question, or the one about Instead/Diva shouldn�t be asked. The issue about asking the question is asking them in a mixed setting forum. Too bad this site doesn�t have a �for ladies only� or �for men only� section.



And I wasn�t offended about the Instead/Diva question being asked, just wish I hadn�t seen it.



HolyGhostGirl, if you have any questions on how to remain pure, I know from another post that there are ladies here that are willing to write to you and give you some advice in private.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:41 PM

soluvable, thanks for keeping it real...lol





Yea, I knew the guys would look at it. I can't stop them, so that's why I boldly posted it in their section, too. People can be soooo sensitive...lol



Thanks for keeping it real...You don't know how much I respect that!

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:43 PM

Ms. Marvel, you're right, I do like to ask edgy questions. If asking about the M word is so taboo, it shouldn't be.



Don't you understand people are so ashamed to get help for their sins because they are afraid of being judged.



Not me. Ima say sweetie. End of discussion.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:56 PM

Preach, Gourd00!!!



God bless you brother.





You got it perfectly right.





The devil wants us to keep quiet about it so ppl can continue to struggle. Like what you said about chocolate. That is one of my temptations, so yea, if someone mentions it, I do want chocolate...lol...I don't whine and cry about though.





Your comments mean a lot to me.



A whole lot.





Thanks!!

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