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Tulip89

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Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:28 AM

While Brandon's trying to figure out what "girl next door" means, I would like to know what the heck "curvy" is supposed to mean. Not block shaped?

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:03 AM

why is that?

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:06 AM

She is so NOT a size 4-8 in that picture... And that's one of her thinner ones anyways. I would say that she's more in the 10-12 range perhaps (in that picture). And she doesn't look like an E cup either. Hmmm. I would guess a D cup.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:08 AM

Why? Because you seem to have a phobia of body fat (based on various other posts of yours here since I joined back in April) and Marilyn Monroe had body fat. Yet, you've said that she qualifies as voluptuous and that you like voluptuous women.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:08 AM

I would agree, I probably could have found a better link.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:10 AM

And her bathing suit looks tight... Like it's sucking thing in a bit! And it's written by a REPORTER!

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:17 AM

I dont have a phobia of fat, dispropotianate female figures do not attract me, but a woman needs to have hips, and a fram that can handle me, and bearing our big headed brood :ROFL:



You know its all about shape not weight for us men. a woman could be a size 12-14 5'5" or so and be completly propitionate as in her top and hip is bigger than her tummy, and thats alright by me :)

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 12:30 AM

Your big-headed brood?



So you only have a phobia of tummy fat... That's still a phobia of fat. And you're always going on-and-on here about women's bodies. It's one the 1st things I noticed about you on CDFF.



What about when a woman is pregnant? Is she unattractive then? Or what about if she's perfectly proportioned now but then gains some weight? A woman should NOT have to worry that her husband will suddenly no longer find her sexually attractive because she's pregnant or because she gained 20 pounds.



If I see that a man wants to fall in love with a woman because of her body (even if it's only partly because of that), then it would stand to reason that he would fall out of love if her body changed. And that is always a turn-off for me.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 01:27 AM

All my kids seem to have big heads lol



I do not have any phobias. Phobia is a irrational fear that causes a severe reaction. If you pay close attention to what I have said, you will see that I stated "I am not ATTRACTED to disproportionate females". Attraction is something that appeals, or (in this case) draws another person to them. As it is my preference, I�m ok with that, and I fail to see in God's word where I am required to take a woman I�m not attracted to.



Pregnancy is usually different. In the three pregnancies I have gone through I have noticed that a woman's other parts do change in proportion, but not to the same ratio especially later in the term, which was/is ok with me since I helped put her in that condition. I am not an authority, but based on experience a good majority of the increase in mass is not fat, or usually doesn�t have to be. And I agree a woman should be affirmed by her man at all times, and also it would behoove a woman to make it a life long concern of hers to maintain herself if, she loves her man.



Now you can reason anyway you desire, but I would venture to say that if a man does not find you attractive physically (which varies from man to man) than there is little chance he will pursue you. And although it� isn't the only thing a man is after it is one important thing to us. Just look at Song of Solomon

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 01:40 AM

Anyway if I had a sister or cousin or daughter that was concerned about this and fell under the category of 'anything-other-than-slender' or on second thought, even if they didn't I would say and encourage her to be: Healthy and happy. That's still attractive right? As opposed to unhealthy and unhappy?

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 03:39 AM

I never said that you're required to marry a woman who you're not physically attracted to. BUT, I am absolutely suggesting that you if you marry someone for her body -- her changing, fleeting, outer shell -- that you misunderstand the role of physical/sexual attraction in a Biblical marriage. And that you misunderstand the purpose of sex! I think that when we fully grasp the purpose of marriage and sex, that what we find ourselves attracted to then is something much deeper... Priorities change and we develop a more mature view of what we need and want from a relationship with the opposite sex.

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