Author	Thread: Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date?
Admin	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 2 Mar, 2010 06:21 PM let's say the date is going well and the attractions are there, he's funny, witty, he smells yummy and you really get along well. (or whatever attracts you personally) You leave the restaurant or wherever and you say goodnight, he leans in to give you a kiss... WHAT DO YOU DO? I think I would start and totally ruin the moment. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 7 Mar, 2010 07:28 PM Given my background being very conservative this will probably come off as too restrictive but here it goes! Dating is for the purpose of marriage, you may or may not marry this person, they may marry someone else, but i have the philosophy that that person is someone's spouse (maybe you maybe someone else). Also it can very easily become a 'slippery slope' to doing more than a little smooch, because God designed it that way.. I would treat the person as if they were married, i know that sounds really weird but for me no physical anything til engaged (then maybe kiss on cheek, handholding) and even then it might not be a bad idea to keep on with that rule just because i can see it becoming really hard to not want to do more........ rachel Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 7 Mar, 2010 07:37 PM dear d g ,, hey man youd make a great detective hehe.. you and the ladies here are crackin me up tonight lol.. ya know though they are right doggone cute when theyre busted hehe ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 09:30 AM You all have no idea how long I looked for that post.:glow: Yes, we guys have to keep you girls on your toes. I doubt that you will catch me :zzzz: ok ladies. I know I caught some of you- :zzzz: That was so fun. :peace: peace, Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 10:48 AM Yeah Rachel, you do sound a little over the top when it comes to being conservative but you know what? I say better safe than sorry. I think your convictions are valid. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit but it is easy to forget that when we are in the throws of passion. Perhaps if Christians did practice better self control and used the mind of Christ to make their decisions instead of the mind of a "dead man" there would be fewer relationship issues and less divorce among them and the light of Jesus would be far more evident to the world. Stand up for what you believe in even if it means standing alone! Thunder Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 11:42 AM Dear dg/Dennis~ You are a hoot !...:ROFL:...Well...I gota honestly say...I've never been under a mistletoe, lest not that I know of...Dang !...All these years I've been missin out...:winksmile:...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 07:27 PM thunderofG. Yeah, i went to a very conservative amish/mennonite school growing up (im not either) but some things have rubbed off, ... rach Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 01:51 AM I would say "No Way Jose!" No one is kissing me until my wedding day! Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 01:00 PM Rach and Katie, so yall r saying ur not kissing anyone at all? i know i didnt hear that right.:laugh: How do u manage that? This is very interesting to me i have never heard anyone say that before. I just dont think i would not want to kiss anyone again until im married....but hey thats me if not kissing works for u then i say go for it u know what is best.. Now i dont mean i want to just kiss random men but if i am on a date then yeah i will. :winksmile: Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 05:21 PM I read this book a few times called "Lady In Waiting" and it talked about physical boundaries. It said there was nothing wrong with kissing, but the author gave this analogy: If you sneak a peak at one of your presents before Christmas you get excited when you see what it is. You carefully rewrap it so no one sees that it was already opened. But when you get it on Christmas morning the excitement is gone because you already know what it is. I might date a couple of guys, but I am only going to get married once and that is the only person I want to kiss! Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Ladies...what about a little smooch on the first date? Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 05:50 PM I get what Katie is saying, but I don't want my first kiss to be during the wedding ceremony. I want a few practice kisses first, preferably with the guy I plan to marry! As for the excitement being diminished, that may be true, but I'd rather experience that excitement in private rather than in front of ALL the guests. I mean, I'll already be a blushing bride, why make it even worse? But I should probably make it clear that any serious, passionate, long kisses should wait until after the wedding. Then we'll be able to kiss as long, as passionately, and as often as we want, without risking going "too far." Post Reply

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