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Talking With Someone's Ex?
Posted : 6 Oct, 2013 07:21 AM

So ladies, I have a question



What do you think when a potential date/mate says something like this, "my former wife really was verbally abusive and even hit me. My wife was unfaithful and cold". Do you automatically believe it? Or do you question what actually took place in that marriage? It seems pretty extreme to me that a woman could be driven to actually "hit a man". Doesn't it? When you hear something like this, do you question it? Do you ask yourself what pushed a woman to this point? What kind of hell was this woman enduring that caused her to respond in these kind of ways?



Do you think it's a good idea to talk with somebody's ex before you consider marrying them? Would you like to have that as an option? It would be nice to hear from another woman what it was like to be married to that man, wouldn't it?

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CuriousGeorge

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Talking With Someone's Ex?
Posted : 8 Oct, 2013 09:23 PM

" If one seeks employment, they are definitely asked for references from past employers even if some of their prior positions might have ended unfavorably. Marriage is at least as important as a job. Is it not? "



then I guess you would encourage fornication.



if one seeks to buy a new car they would definitely want to test drive it first. Marriage is at least as important as buying a new car is it not?

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Posted : 10 Oct, 2013 01:27 AM

And that is often a reason given to justify it! But conversely, would you want to marry somebody only to find they have no desire for sex at all? In that situation would you divorce them? cheat? Go without?

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Posted : 10 Oct, 2013 05:10 AM

It definitely would need to be talked about before marriage.



:peace::peace::peace:

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