Author	Thread: Is it just me or ... ???
Admin	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 11 May, 2013 09:52 PM I'm not the best looking guy in every room I enter but I have NEVER had trouble with women. I have never had so much trouble in my life. I want to be positive and not take it personal but I just don't get it. I'm also registered on another site for which you must pay. I registered about 4 weeks ago. I said hi to about 50 different new women and every single one read my email, looked at my profile and ignored me. It says exactly the same stuff as I do on here so ... I'm wondering if some ladies can check me out and tell me if I'm doing something wrong. I've never thought of myself as ugly but this is, honestly, a blow to the old ego. I'm not mad or anything I'm just really confused. Is my height? Looks? What I put in my introduction? I'm at a loss. Anyway, hope someone can help. I'f I'm doing something wrong let me know. I won't get mad or anything. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 20 May, 2013 09:01 PM Many, many profiles I see on here and other sites make the claim that they ignore messages from people they're not interested in so that nobody feels rejected, and also because they just get so many. I'd be curious to know how many messages most women get on sites like this. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 21 May, 2013 08:54 AM I have no idea why they sign up in the first place. :/ Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 22 May, 2013 09:14 AM Tell me about it...but I can't blame them. I met someone on this site, and before the relationship was "official" she would share some of her experiences with men contacting her, so I know a little of what goes on, and I can't blame them for just ignoring most of them, but it's kind of a catch 22. They ignore contacts from men, and personally, I've pretty much given up on contacting them. Too many checklists. I typically just make my profile as honest/interesting as possible and wait for the ones that are assertive enough to show some interest instead of waiting on guys to do everything and then ignoring them.:laugh: It's all pretty funny if you step back from it. :peace::peace: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 22 May, 2013 12:45 PM It's not just the girls who don't answer messages...the guys are just as bad! Seriously, I've been on this site (as well as a few others) since 2009, and have contacted dozens of guys. Only a handful of guys ever responded. I've managed to have two short-lived dating relationships thanks to dating sites, but that's it. Anyway, on to your profile. I thought it was fine. The whole divorced-with-a-daughter thing would be a turn-off for me, but I'm not everyone. Height...yeah, that could be an issue, but I know several happily married couples where the lady is quite a bit taller than the man. If you must mention the height issue in your profile, though, you might try a different approach. You come off a little defensive. Hope this helps! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 22 May, 2013 03:24 PM Hey thanks so much for the feedback and for caring enough to post it. :) I'll adjust it. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 31 May, 2013 09:35 AM I don't think there's anything wrong with how you break the ice with ladies you've tried to interact with, (reading how you say you compliment them in little things like their smile & things of that sort) however it's still is their decision to respond to your massages or just ignore. You're a wonderful person, someone will eventually notice & appreciate that. Maybe the waiting & all the rejection is preparing you for an owesome partner, whose going to accept, cherish & love you for who & what you currently are. I honestly think you doing well from what you've said Best wishes for you!! Post Reply
heart4God4u View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 8 Jun, 2013 01:37 PM I'll blunt here too. I'll agree with the kids comment. But strike number 2 is the divorce. Not many women are okay with "baggage". Kids are one thing, but seeing that you've been in a marriage relationship that didn't work out may have ladies wondering will it be me too? Some of us take that at a red flag for possible rejection down the road, and not even give you a second look. While others may give you a chance, but back-out because the chemistry isn't right. Either way, it doesn't hurt to be honest about your past relationships but I'd advise keeping it under-wraps and then discuss it when the time is right and conversation arises. If it were me, I'd change my "divorce" status to a neutral one. At least then you may have better luck and finding the "one." It's dating etiquette 101 - don't talk about your past relationships/"baggage" on the first date. And in theory, you just broke the rule on your profile. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 23 Jun, 2013 01:46 AM I truly understand what you're saying about having a kid and being divorced but let me explain something to you and all women ... perfection does not exist within this world. We all make mistakes and if a woman doesn't want me just because I've been divorced she is SHALLOW, PATHETIC and JUDGMENTAL and I CLEARLY would not want to associate with her in a romantic way due to those facts. Women are so pathetically shallow. I know this doesn't apply to ALL women but the majority for sure and by a margin for that matter. All you Christian women SWEAR that all you want is a "Good man who loves God, is caring, family oriented ... etc". --ALL LIES.-- All they want is perfection ... that's it. No biggie. He HAS to be 6 feet tall and he HAS TO not be divorced and he HAS TO look like a friggin J. Crew model. Why don't they throw in expectations for genital fortitude, annual salary, year, make and model of car and how many rooms the house has to have while you're at it? Oh ... no ... that's crossing a line but it's still true. Go ahead ... someone say it. "Oh, well women are attracted to power and success." Allow me to share something that is UNDISPUTED IN TRUTH. If you don't agree, read the Bible. It is MUCH more shallow for a woman to give herself to a man simply because of his status and bank account than for a man to want to take a woman for what she looks like. Yes ... yes it ABSOLUTELY IS. Physical attraction is LITERALLY ESSENTIAL to a relationship whereas height, money, success, power, cars, houses, divorces (etc, etc) are NOT. Not in the least. No ... none of you will admit it but the truth is always true whether spoken or not. At least men who are shallow are shallow about things that MEAN SOMETHING. For instance, for those sad, sorry men who will not accept a woman whom isn't ridiculously skinny and physically perfect ... well ... that's absolutely wrong and pathetic but AT LEAST physical attraction is IMPORTANT. It MEANS SOMETHING to be attracted to someone. Height, on the other hand ... DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING. Divorce may mean something but you don't know what it means TILL YOU ASK. Height ESPECIALLY doesn't mean anything when the girl is shorter than you and she still thinks you're too short. Women, in general, have turned into shallow, uncaring, judgmental bytches and these so-called "Christian" women are the biggest offenders. (yes, I spelled that word that way on purpose) P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C. Again ... I KNOW this does NOT apply to every single women but it's true MUCH more often than it's not. I'm not shallow. I'm a good man. I love God. I'm family oriented. I'm not perfect. I may not be the best looking guy in every room I enter but I'm not ugly. I have a good job. I'm a good father. I'm nice, caring, loving, affectionate, talented ... But not a single one of those things matters to any ladies I've tried to contact on these Christian dating sites. Cuz they're all waiting for Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum to email them which is hilarious because those guys would likely treat them like garbage. Shallow and pathetic to the last one. (women in general) Finally, just to be crystal clear ... I'm not mad, angry, hurt, projecting, peeved or any other thing that one would assume from this post. I simply see things for what they are and am NOT afraid to speak the truth. You may want to ASSUME my views and opinions are skewed and twisted but if you simply seek the truth you shall find it and it is what I have said here. I WISH I were wrong ... sadly, I am not. And that's my rant people. You can disagree all day but you cannot prove me wrong. God bless and good night. :peace: :winksmile::laugh::angel::applause::glow::waving::yay::rocknroll::dunce::bouncy::ROFL: Post Reply

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