Author	Thread: WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?.
Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 25 Dec, 2011 12:46 PM We men seems to think we know what women want, but we can't seem to meet their needs. Women what do you need to make any relationship succesful?. Post Reply
Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 27 Dec, 2011 07:15 PM Cobbler, Your question is "How can you meet some ones need if you don't know what they are?" That question is already answered in the piece that I wrote this afternoon. The Spiritual responsibilty of the husband is to know and supply the need of his wife. I gave an example between Christ and the Church. the Church is the bride of Christ, The Church did not communicate her need to Christ, Christ knew those needs and supplied them and eventually made the ultimate sacrifice for the Church. When we follow Christ, we have to take on his Character, by allowing the fruits of the Spirit to grow and mature in us. Read Ephesians 5:25-30 and ask the holy Spirit to reveal his word to you. This is a spiritual question that requiers a spiritual answer. The flesh is contrary to the spirit, Wisdom is different from Intelligence. Wisdom belongs to God, Intelligence belongs to man, and the intelligence of man is useless to God. Let the Spirit lead and guide you, and he will reveal the wisdom of God to you, which is the word of God. The bible teaches that if we lack wisdom we should ask, and God is a generous giver. Godbless you my brother. Let me know if I can be of more help. Pastor Scott Ogun. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 27 Dec, 2011 07:34 PM That doesn't begin to answer the question. How do you meet someone's needs if you don't know what they are? You ask them and you find out what they are. You get to know the person. Post Reply
Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 27 Dec, 2011 08:18 PM Godsgirl, that is an intellingent answer, a worldly answer to a spiritual question but not a spiritual answer. Godbless you. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 28 Dec, 2011 07:43 AM Yes, manscottell, if you are spiritually in tune with God you will never need to ask her what she needs, you will just magically know. I�m sure that has worked out well for you. Godsgirl23, You are right that we should ask, and no that is not a worldly answer. The problem is when women have a problem with me having to ask, because I should �just know�. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 28 Dec, 2011 08:02 PM Sometimes the same happens in reverse: guys have needs, but a girl can't possibly meet that need if the guy just expects her to know automatically what it is. Occasionally, we need guys to just speak up and be blunt with us! I think I have lost one or two great guys because somehow I wasn't giving them what they needed from a relationship...even though I was trying really hard. I guess they were dropping hints, but I sure never picked up on them. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 28 Dec, 2011 08:21 PM You are absolutely right, BC, if a guy needs something and he won�t talk to you about it, then it�s his fault. It�s ok to drop hints, but if the other person doesn�t seem to be getting the hints, then you should switch to just asking them. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 29 Dec, 2011 01:56 AM Those who think being in-tune with God will make things okay with women seem to have forgotten David's issue with Michal - women are not God and pleasing Him is no guarantee they will be pleased alike. As for those who listen to God will know what women need without asking; a cursory glance at the world will show that to be complete nonsense. There's plenty of men who couldn't care less about God who have no problems at all with pretty much any women they choose... Post Reply
Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 29 Dec, 2011 05:32 AM Dkj, The word of God and His ways are not nonsense to the believer. Maybe that is why most marriages fail. 72 days of marriage and 18 days of marriage were the last news I heard before divorce. Scott. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 29 Dec, 2011 05:43 AM That isn't what he said, and he's absolutely right. One's connection with God (which, by the way, I would not get too arrogant about) doesn't ensure one success with ~the ladies~, or vice versa. Social awareness/intelligence has nothing to do with spirituality, and it's no indicator of how "in tune" one is with God. It's an indicator of how "in tune" one is with other people, who operate differently, seeing as how they aren't God. I really don't think any of this is rocket science (and I DEFINITELY don't think it's a particularly spiritual issue). It's not unlike friendship, really. How do you know what your closest friends need? For me, it's because... we're friends. I know them. I know what cheers them up, what frustrates them, I sympathize with them, get excited for them, etc. It isn't something we talk about in advance, it's part of the growth of a normal, healthy friendship. We have misunderstandings and arguments and later apologize and make up. I don't expect a romantic relationship to differ too much in these areas. It's not a problem with a magic answer, it's part of having a relationship with a person and coming to understand and know one another and work through problems. Post Reply
Manscottell View Profile History	WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?. Posted : 29 Dec, 2011 06:05 AM Realtionships that are not based on solid spiritual foundation cannot go through all the storms of life. To love is to love from both sides, when others needs are being met yours are too. Post Reply

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