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the cause of divorce?
Posted : 24 Aug, 2011 04:16 PM

as it is obvious in this site divorce is very common,,but the explinations almost none.,,

AS some one whos never been married or experiaced it..

Iam curious if willing people would explain the reasons for there divorce and if they feel it could have been avoided or not?

this is not to judge any one but the object is maybe we all can learn if we share our experiances, hope to also put this topic in as a guy as well,,

hope we can all learn something:angel:

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the cause of divorce?
Posted : 2 Sep, 2011 07:07 PM

Moses said because of the hardness of their hearts he allowed for divorce in the Law. However, it was not to be so from the beginning.

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Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 03:01 AM

I have a question.

If you've never been married, but you are not a virgin... is that not also adultry?

The bible does not say, "For this reason you shall leave your mother and father and have a public ceremony..."

It says "... and be joined with...", which is actually a term for physical connection I believe, if you look up the original language.

If you, therefore, do not marry the person that you 'joined' and then go and marry someone else... is that not judged equally?

Maybe we need a bible expert here...

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Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 07:01 AM

Trust and Believe; I am not a Bible Scholar nor do I play on on t.v. but....



I lookded up Adultery in the Strongs and according to it 'Adultery is specifically applied to marriage between a man and a woman and the sin against it. There of course is the application of the word to mean or imply 'Idolatry'.



Sex outside of marriage is often referred to as 'fornication' but I'm not really sure if that's a true applicaction after having read the Strongs on the matter. Fornication means 'harlot' or ''temptress that leads into adultery'.



There, I took the chance, answered the question. Which in and of itself is perilous as most womens questions are looped and come back to bite the answering man in the rear! I should know better, but obviously I haven't learned my lesson yet!



On the other hand, that may get the ball rolling and someone witll feel obligated to get into a lengthy rebuttal of my comments and we'll find the truth of the matter.



gone fishin,



Kevin

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2011 05:17 PM

I didn�t wanted to do wrong in God�s eye when I didn�t wanted to live with my husband anymore.



I tried to find the answer of my own but it was hard to find as the Pastor�s in the church said so different about divorce.



It wasn�t only that my husband didn�t respect me by wake me up at 3 in the night saying he was hungry after coming home from the bar.

As a good wife did I go up from my bed and cooked food for my husband. When we where together at the bar and it come a sexy woman and he forget me and flirt with her and even kiss women in front of me...I didn�t divorce because of this.



It wasn�t that he had sex with his boss wife and the boss find them and fired my husband that I wanted divorce.



It was when I find out that he had HIV before we where married and he had not told me. I ws worried to get HIV but GOD protect His people so the test told me I was clean.



He could have killed me.



One day come GOD forward and said this to me :



If you marry before you knew me is it o.k. to divorce because you didn�t knew better.



BUT if you knew me and marry wrong man can�t you divorce because you should know what sort of man you should marry.





It is not only to run away and marry. The Bible tell us what sort of wife or husband we should have.



We should not marry out from our believe and we should make sure that you both is on the same level in faith and work for God.



Today am I very careful when I meet a man and wait for God to tell me it is o.k. to marry that man. So far have I not met anyone that have come close to make me consider marriage.

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