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Local vs. Distance?
Posted : 8 Apr, 2011 12:45 PM

I have found myself in a conundrum here. I have found that there are not many girls in my area on this site that I am interested in and that in itself presents a problem, but that is not the tricky part. I am finding that I have more interest in girls that are hours away and I am finding that I don't message them because I don't know how a long distance relationship would work. I mean I can't exactly visit them every weekend so it would have be on a couple of months bases and I would want to stay in the area for a few days to get the maximum amount of the time with that person, but at the same time I would not want to be spending money on hotels all the time. I have no problem with the driving, but the distance thing concerns me and I sometimes think that that person would be better off getting to know someone local so that they don't have to deal with not being able to see me often. I know I would want to see them as much as possible and I know it also puts strain sometimes on a relationship SO I was curious about what you gals thought. This was also kinda one long thought and that's why there is no paragraphs. Sry. :P





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roeroe

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Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 04:02 PM

tao kim....ain't no river wide enough....lol

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Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 05:04 PM

yeah I noticed that typo . . . I figured it wasn't worth correcting since most people probably knew what I was trying to say anyway.



For some reason I have this thing where my mind thinks one word, but then my fingers type a completely different and random word :rolleyes: lol

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Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 10:47 PM

I happen to like this hat. It's a very nice hat, and it goes well with my eyes!

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 02:28 AM

Real Christians won't find it hard!

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Tulip89

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 07:14 AM

That's a pretty bold statement, Mount. Would you like to be more specific as to why I'm not a real Christian?

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 10:34 AM

MountOfBlessing,

That is a rather bold statement to say to Tulip and myself. I haven't know Tulip for long, but I know one thing about him and that's his walk with God. It shows in a majority of his posts that I have seen. I also think you are missing the point of this topic. It is not even about me or anything that I want. It is about me getting more information about long distance relationship. I have never been in one and if I find someone that I like outside of my area I will need as much advice as possible to make it work. I know it will greatly depend on our relationship with God, but at the same time there are practical things to consider. It is kind of silly to think that a long distance relationship would with God alone, it requires my participation too.



Tulip,

I forgot to ask how it went with that girl? :P

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 02:23 PM

Thanks man. And we're meeting up on Wednesday. Fingers crossed!

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Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 06:12 PM

Yup, no prob. I'll be interested to hear how it goes.

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2011 01:27 AM

Yeah, that comment kind of made me angry. But I bit my tongue and decided not to say anything.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so its nice to know how you feel.

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2011 01:28 AM

My previous comment was directed toward MountofBlessings! :waving: God bless you, girl.

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