Okay so, I was wondering about something. Perhaps this is because I'm interested in Psychological things or Sociological thinking.. But a couple things I wonder. I wonder if different women, at different ages have certain perferences in a man. I also wonder what are those preferences.
So If you want to participate and indulge my curiousity, State your age (you dont have to if you don't wish to) and the the top three things about a man's personality that you prefer (Besides loving Jesus!) and the top three physical things about a man you prefer (It may seem shallowish, but everyone prefers something I think)
I may seem weird, but this stuff really does interest me =)
Only one, the Rugged cowboy. And yes, I think this might have something to do with the way I was raised, since I'm from the land that celebrates cowboys.
As for the type of leader, I think like BC said, I want someone who is mixed in leadership. I think it's important to be able to take control when needed and to be able to plan.
1: He's gotta be respectful of his parents, along with mine as well.
2: I also like a man to be a leader.. and when I say that I mean he should make the decision, I guess you can say I like a guy that "grabs the bull by the horns" as someone stated earlier in this topic lol
3: Gotta love kids
As far as looks go:
1: Strong arms, hands, legs.. Someone hwo can protect me lol
Mind that in any relationship, the first thing I am looking for is someone who is ready and willing to love and be loved in return. That is the dream of a lifelong marriage. But when talking preferences, here is what I think.
personality:
1) PASSION: not just for Christ, but for the people and things that occupy his interest. A man with passion generally knows or searches out the desires of his heart with great care, seeking to lead his heart, but not to lose it.
2) INTEGRITY: someone who tries to live in such a way as to be unashamed. The man with integrity is one who is never too prideful to recognize and apologize for a wrongdoing or to gently and lovingly convict another of their own wrongdoing. He always tries keep his priorities in order: self to God, self to people, self to self.
3) JOY: I can really appreciate a person who knows how to be happy in any circumstance. Someone with a sense of humor, or even just a sense of reassurance, who is always ready to share that reassurance with a friend or stranger who is down, and not just superficially. This does not mean that he lives in denial of reality, this just means that the Joy he has in God's Salvation is a part of that reality.
physical:
1) I also like a guy with a keen eye and a ready smile. It shows me that he's someone who can enjoy life and the company of others. That and I think that I'm just naturally attracted to those features.
2) I would be lying if I said that I am not attracted to healthier men. Think someone who is not hugely overweight, or else someone with a light tone that suggests work. I also tend to prefer someone who is at least my own height, or else a little taller and broader of shoulder.
3) I can be attracted to men from a variety of cultures, features, and colors, but I like to see someone who can take care of himself and has a good, friendly demeanor. I tend to be put off by pants sagging below the butt-crack and a general lack of grooming.
eyes and a great smile