Author	Thread: Is the second date too early to propose?
Tulip89 View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 4 Dec, 2010 04:45 PM I had a good date this afternoon, and I was curious. Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 4 Dec, 2010 08:13 PM Go for broke and take her to Vegas. That way, proposal and marriage will be done before 4th date and either of you has time for cold feet. Then, you can meet the families over the Christmas holidays. Nice little package deal. Enjoy the first bloom of love. Hope it blossoms into everything you wish for. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 4 Dec, 2010 08:17 PM Don't be putting ideas into my head Elisa! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 4 Dec, 2010 09:15 PM Does anyone need to put ideas into your head. And I say, go for it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 05:58 AM Tulip, I think you need to wait a lot longer than that!! hehe!! Take your time and then maybe after a year, then pop the question!! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 07:22 AM Oh Godsgirl. You and that ridiculous common sense. As far as actual timelines for proposal, I most likely graduate in spring 2012, so that would be the earliest I could get married. Assuming a 6 month engagement, you pretty much hit the nail on the head with waiting a year to propose. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 08:41 AM Tulip, Yep, that's my common sense motherly advice for you!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 09:48 AM Sounds like her mission trip, if it is not a clever excuse to lose contact with you, is perfectly timed! If she is still interested in you after three weeks of separation, that's probably an excellent sign. If she isn't, then she either ran off or has a short attention span, and both are probably good indicators that it wouldn't have worked. In answer to the original question, I personally would lose all confidence in a guy that proposed on the second date, no matter how well those two dates went. Yeah, I am interested in dating and men, but I'm not desperate and don't want anything to do with anybody that gives off any vibes of desperation. Bleh! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 11:47 AM I guess I'll just have to make this next date extra special so she can't wait for the third one in a month... Post Reply
View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 5 Dec, 2010 01:02 PM Great to hear, Tulip! Yes, the 2nd date is too early. 4th date -- that is when you should do it. Then wait until you graduate to have the ceremony. That will give you lots of time to see her in a sundress (once the weather is warmer) and for her to ride on your bike. And for your family and friends to give a thumbs up. I'm really happy for you! :applause: Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Is the second date too early to propose? Posted : 6 Dec, 2010 10:46 AM aww! sounds like tulip's falling in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seriously, sweetie, Keep in touch while she is on her mission trip, and see how you feel when she gets back. take it kinda slow, and good luck, and GODSPEED!:angel: Post Reply

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