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What does this mean, how do I write back at her?
Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 09:25 AM

I am trying to do a positive connect with a woman on here and she has written confusion back at me, what does this all mean, how do I write back at her to get more talking going and a date? I reallt want to see this woman and know her, help me not mess this relationship up with her.



Thank you for your interest and for your extensive compliments. I am flattered that you would take the time to write such lengthy messages to me!



Yes, I have lived here in WA my whole life. I don't disclose my city until I've known a guy for awhile. I hope you understand my desire to be cautious in that.



You don't seem familiar to me, but it's difficult to make that determination without a picture. I rather doubt it was from college, though, as you're several years older than me. I went to the University of WA right after high school, but I rarely mingled much with people in my classes. I lived in a dorm my first two years and in the University apartments after that. With the age difference between us, I wouldn't imagine that you would have been living in either of those places at the same time as I was.



Just to reiterate what I stated in my profile: I am unavailable. I've had a lot of stuff going on in the past few months and am taking a break from romantic relationships because of all of it. Additionally, I am talking fairly seriously with a guy friend I met through this site and anticipate that I will be pursuing things there once I've healed from some stuff and am ready to move forward. However, we would not be a good match anyway. We don't have common interests and your "not sure yet" denomination is a bit of a red flag. I would hope that Christianity would be the most important aspect of who you are; as such, you should be knowledgeable enough about it to select a denomination (or, to explain elsewhere in your profile why you're unsure of your denomination). Also of concern is your copious use of "prefer not to say." I'm an open person who desires to live an authentic, transparent life. My desire is to marry someone who is cut from the same cloth. If you're unable to be open about such basic things as whether you smoke or drink or have children, then we really wouldn't get along.



I apologize for any misunderstandings regarding my availability and wish you well in your time on CDFF.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 02:22 PM

I did NOT write mine in anger; I did what anybody would do when talking to someone hard of hearing....talk louder

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 03:44 PM

Okay Twosparrows.that should work.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 06:11 PM

I can't believe you just post her private message.

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Posted : 26 Nov, 2010 10:37 AM

It means that she's not interested.

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Posted : 28 Nov, 2010 11:29 AM

This is sad but true. last year we had a man on the site here that also had a female profile. He used his female profile to support his attack on other people. The adminstration kisk both off.They had a little investagation. Would a woman do the same thing?????

I guess so????

That is why I sometimes come very hard against sex on the forums. I offer no apoliges. Be wise, not dumb!!!!!

This woman always has some guy chasing her. Red flag!!!!

The guy always says the same thing. But different guys.

Are you all smart here?????

I hope so. Dennis

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