Author	Thread: Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well?
Admin	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 6 Nov, 2010 01:55 PM Hello ladies! this question i sort of borrowed from Pixys' "Crossing the Line" posted in the "Ask A Guys" section on Nov.03rd. My thoughts on this was that some of you may feel a little offended by our opioins as a lady respond with "This is a dating site,not church!" so i thought you deserved to share with us gentlemen your opinions as well. Question 1: Do us guys seem to dress or expose ourselves in any way? (e.g showing our 'butt cracks"& boxers being shirtless & showing our sixpacks etc) Question 2: do you pose in any certain way that seems to a "i'm gonna get a girl with this" or it looks to "gangsterish"? Question 3: what are your veiws on us "christian men" wearing skinny jeans does it looks too "gayish"? I've run out of questions since i don't know what's on your mind so please share your veiws ladies.(p.s to any guys out there who wants to respond to this please don't give any negative comments since is for the ladies and not for you).:nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 02:50 PM Awww... I really like your picture, SilverFire. I like all of them. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 04:13 PM To: Pixy,THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENTS!!!!!!:glow::applause::applause::applause: I'm SO GLAD to HEAR YOU RESPOND :waving: since you ARE the ORIGINAL AUTHOR of the post ! To: Sliverfire, I'm not surprised that you would've respond to Syiliis' comment since then i saw your photo pose as your main pic for your profile. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 08:15 PM Come on Silverfire; show some compassion for pixy, after all she is your sister in Christ. Surely you wouldn't want to jeopardize her salvation because of her fantasizing about being swept up in a passionate hug by your massive muscular manly arms. I would post a scripture addressing this topic; except I am only playing with you all! Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 01:30 AM Do men ever cross the line with their pics. Some men do yes. One of the most revolting pictures on here, to me are the ones with men who look like they are in a shower stall. That just sends the wrong kind of message. It suggests that you are not in here to find a Godly wife, but just for hook-ups and then some. *To Silverfire, I agree with Pixy about your pics. None of them seem to cross the line at all. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 06:36 AM I agree with Viola about the shower pictures...revolting. Ugh. Silver, you're pictures are fine...yeah, you initially give a "tough guy" impression because of your main picture, but the others on your profile don't. And I've read enough of your forum posts, and even a couple personal exchanges about my own profile, to know that you might not be quite as tough as that picture indicates! Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 08:50 AM I know that Twosparrows said that he was only joking with his comment, but since it's out there for everyone to read and roll around in their minds, I'm just going to clarify my post anyway. Simply, I intended to express that I don't assign the same characteristics as Siylii does to a person posed as SilverFire. I meant to confirm SilverFire's alternative explanation for the motivation behind his pose; in short, that I see something very different than the intimidation and ego or self-consciousness that Siylii sees. I see none of those things in SilverFire's picture (or in others posed similarly) or in what I know of his character. While a picture is worth a thousand words, I think we must be careful to not read too much into things or to venture too deeply into assuming what people's motives are. It's also beneficial to realize that our own experiences can colour how we see others/things; sometimes we do well to take pause and to examine why we view someone or something the way that we do. I know that I've personally had a lot of difficulty with this in my life, in that I allow my past interactions with scummy people (such as rapists) to affect my attitudes towards people who show even the tiniest bit of similarity to the scummy people. What I have to remind myself continuously is that not everyone who has this one thing in common is a bad guy out to hurt me. In the end, if we do believe one's motives to be sinful, then it is important, as SilverFire stated, to address that properly. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 09:02 AM @pixy " ye thinks ye protests to much" ! Pixy I love you and greatly appreciate being in the mist of your presence here. Hope you know I am just playing with you cause I like you and can't help myself sometimes :winksmile: Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 08:38 PM I'm sorry if I offended you, Silverfire. While I wasn't thinking about you specifically when I wrote those things, I definitely admit that it looks like I did. I didn't consciously think "Oh, that Silverfire", but I do notice that your picture embodies more than one of the features I picked on. What I had in mind are guys that, in my mind, look like they're trying really hard to look gangster or something, I'm honestly not sure what they are going for. Anyway, I'm not part of your dating pool, so who cares what I think, right? If you feel like your picture embodies who you are, then you chose the right picture; I'd rather not prefer somebody's picture than be misled by it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 8 Nov, 2010 11:43 PM 1/2 I�ve seen many attractive brothers on the site, and I have no idea of what their chests look like. I'm for looking good, being toned, working out, and some sexy, but for me, start with my mind. Pulling up a pic of six pack does nothing for me (it's not mine), and when that happens here, I move on. Cracks and underwear: sorry.. No, just.. No 3 Skinny Jeans (gay), gonna have to check that one, well I probably won't. I mean what looks a certain way to me, may not look the same to someone else, I mean are we getting into style? Excluding cracks, underwear, stretch marks (had to add that one) and whatever else one really just doesn't have to share with everyone on the planet.. Who cares? Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Do us guys seems to be "CROSSING THE LINE" as well? Posted : 9 Nov, 2010 03:25 PM Siylli, you only offended me if you targeted me with your words. Since you did not, then you could not have possibly offended me. I care about what you think because I am interested in purity -- that there may not even be a hint of immorality among you, you know? If I was inadvertantly causing people to stumble, I'd want to know so that I could avoid doing that. Bcpiano -- Oh no. I am completely as tough as my picture indicates, just not in the stereotypical "I beat up five guys every night" way. :rocknroll: Post Reply

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