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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 4 Oct, 2010 06:41 PM

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 11:34 AM

Angel is the pet name that I don't like guys to call me. And Sexy is not appropriate unless we're married. Most other pet names are fine with me (though I do have a couple favourites), but NOT in the first message or even first several messages.

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:13 PM

You send me a first email titled "Yummy" Your picture is yummy. It's insulting and how do you follow up? Wait no woman wants to follow up with a first email like that

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:19 PM

Ask questions...Often I feel like I am pulling teeth trying to have a conversation with a guy you send an email with a question. They email you back an answer with no follow-up question after a couple of times of that I just stop emailing. Also, when I get "you need to know me better before you can tell me" what you do for fun or if you are involved in any ministries at your local church. I an trying to get to know you. I am not asking about your bank balance or first sextual experience

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:25 PM

I dislike "tasty" even more than "yummy," though. One time, this guy on here told me that I looked like a tasty little morsel. I replied back asking him if he was a cannibal. Or, when guys comment on my lips... I mean, it's okay if I'm romantically involved w/ a guy and he comments on them... but otherwise... NOOO... I've had guys on here make very sexual comments about my lips. Like things they're imagining my lips doing. Those guys have gotten reported and removed from the site, thankfully!

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 7 Oct, 2010 05:26 PM

@Pixy. Your list was dead-on! As far as the comments about your lips, that's pretty funny. I have a guy ask what color the undies (his word) I was wearing were. So disturbing. Needless to say, I reported him and he was deleted. He had some inappropriate forum posts elsewhere too, so I figure I did all us women a favor.



@Marikashome. "If I wanted to be called "sweetheart" by everyone who messaged me, I would have made that my profile name." You crack me up! :ROFL: I might actually use that the next time some guy calls me "baby" or "cutie" and the other numerous pet names we get.



@DeeDee. Amen! Guys need to actually ASK QUESTIONS and keep the conversation rolling. I do my best, but seriously, there are only so many questions I can ask. Yes and no answers, especially when it's not even a yes or no question, just don't cut it. Guys, you have to give us something! Even if you're a "bad conversationalist" you can still come up with better than yes or no.

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What's your BIGGEST "no-no" advice to any guy who has read your profile and feels a degree of attraction toward you and would like to e-mail you and get to know you better?
Posted : 7 Oct, 2010 05:59 PM

I had a guy ask me what colour mine were on another site years ago!!! I wasn't sure whether to laugh or vomit!

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Posted : 7 Oct, 2010 09:28 PM

hahaha. One of these days, I will think up a clever response that will make people think twice about asking those questions. On another site just a few months ago, I had a Russian girl write me and ask me some questions, and pretty soon she started asking me some really inappropriate ones. I can't remember all of them, but they were really dirty. It was not good... I also had a guy who sent me a message saying something about me being hot or something, but in a very demeaning way. I wrote back, thanked him for the compliment (heh) and told him that I wasn't interested. He wrote back this long thing about how he didn't need me and how I was barely even average and he had "done" girls way hotter than me, bla bla. He said girls like me had no hopes and dreams and were stupid and brainless and were a waste of time, and how I would never be anything. He was only being nice and going to give me a chance, but whatever, my loss. HAHAHA. First I cracked up. Then, I think I might have written back, politely informed him that I had a very good job and a couple other things, reported him, and got a couple extra free days on the site (it was a paying one) :-D

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