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what do you think?
Posted : 7 May, 2010 05:25 AM

I have a friend who,before she was a christian,had three kids with a man,he went to prison,she says she will always love him,but shes not in love with him,she is now a christian,should someone else date her.Would this be fair to the new man,what about when he gets out?

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what do you think?
Posted : 7 May, 2010 10:15 AM

mog asked;"Would this be fair to the new man,what about when he gets out?"

i answered;"in agreement with the statement "To me, you are either free to date or you are not. There really is no inbetween..." from SOS.

brandy said; "The woman is free to date. She just has 3 children by an ex. Had she been divorced would you think it was ok for her to keep her exhusband from his children?"

my response; where did that come from? from your statement, would it be fair for me to assume that you know her? well i do not know her, mog's question was pretty clear to me. that is what i was addressing. the situation sounded dizzy to me also. from what i gathered he was asking our opinions on fairnes toward the new man where the old man was concerned. and my response remains the same... "To me, you are either free to date or you are not. There really is no inbetween..." dating where children are concerned is tricky, but when you have sorted your situation (whose details i chose not to speculate on) out either you are free to date or not; and that will determine fairness. if you are free, it is fair. if not, it is not.

nyanda...

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