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Rabbit32

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Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 09:35 PM

Always seem to rise to a challenge? or, do something they wouldn't normally do because of a challenge?

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Posted : 20 Apr, 2010 07:46 PM

I always tell them not to enter my orchard lol let alone take hold of the apple.

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2010 02:14 AM

Hi Rabbit,



Here comes Ole Mother Hubbard again! Age tends to give you perspective. I've noticed that there are far more widowed and divorced women on dating sites than never married - may not hold true in your age group, but I'm guessing if they are on this site, they are bringing baggage. It is inevitable for all of us, if we have been in any kind of a male/female relationship before. I've also noticed that there are way more insecure people on sites than confident, well-balanced people. As the ladies have already stated, women who don't feel good about themselves, are going to try and get affirmation, even though it is the wrong kind of affirmation. If they are excessively insecure, they don't just want to feel that they are attractive to you, they want to feel that they are irresistible. DANGEROUS! If you try to tell them that they "need help," you'll make a lot of enemies, but you might ask them if they have a mentor or confidante and how they have dealt with rejections of their past - you wouldn't be wise to become their counselor, but it would help you gauge if the relationship has any hope. If they don't have a mentor or confidante, please encourage them to do so. I think that you are a wise enough man to figure out how to proceed if she truly is trying to work out her "issues."



I'm still praying and rooting for you!

Rose

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 07:13 AM

Mr Rabbit,



I would hope that somewhere in the relationship that affection would be shown by a kiss. Now that is not to say "making out", but one of the things we men need to and "Have To" learn is Restraint! If you cannot discipline yourself before marriage...you won't be able to after marriage. By Discipline I mean Avoiding Temptations.

Kissing the woman you Love (or have "feelings" for) is not Immoral and just holding hands is a bit too straitlaced and Amish.

It seems that you have a Dichotomy of problems with women...either they are coming on too strong or they are standoffish (your other post about stuck up women). Where do you find these women?

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 02:23 PM

I dont know where I am finding them. I wanna practice the utmost of restraint because it is neccessary. Besides whats more romantic than kissing your bride for the first time on the wedding alter? :)

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 03:29 PM

SirRabbit32 Sir



I think it would be very hard for a woman to understand that you want to marry her but not kiss her before that.

How do you manage?

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