Author	Thread: Qualities of a married man
Admin	Qualities of a married man Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 08:16 PM We're some Christian polygynists from Saskatchewan (where we have legal liberty) and we wanted to take an opportunity to ask women in general some things to see weather things had really changed that much. You see, we've studied enough history to see the times Christians practiced polygamy pre 1800 (because post 1800 Mormonism hits the scene and makes a mess of the topic), and in the cases where they did the women became the prime advocates of it. Much of their reason boiled down to married men having an already proven quality (weather good or bad), that and the fact that they have the benefit of a larger family without having to have all the children themselves. Even now, when the concept polygamy is so shunned, I've seen (and my wife has picked up on) the attractiveness of a married man to Christan women who value family {That or its just my own attractiveness, anyway}. So I ask in general, is it attractive when you can clearly see that a man is a loving husband, attentive father, and skilled leader by the evidence in his own family? Even if you don't like polygamy would the ability to see first hand the way a man acts as a husband be a perk? And secondarily, if you where interested in such a relationship would you see the kids as a plus or as baggage? Obviously we are only looking for women who see it as a plus, but I am curious to know how Christian woman perceive a guy with kids. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 05:20 PM if you want to know the reality of poligamy read Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by Jon Krakauer Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 07:29 PM Huh. Interesting. Being a free site, I could see how they thought they could recruit. But I agree -- why any thinking, reasonable person calling themself a true born-again Christian would think polygamy is OK is........ well, the mind boggles. I'm boggled. And I don't find Christian marred men attractive in the sense that I want to be their wife or marry them. I find them fun to be around, uplifting to be around, it gives me hope for a future husband to be around men like that ---- and I like to be around them WITH their wives present! Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 08:41 PM Looks like those,ugh,folks, were lookin for recruits. Christian-polygomists?:excited: Kinda like saying "clearly confused" or "open secret" ain't it? Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 06:57 AM I can only handle 1 woman at a time.To even think of more than one is scary.I knew a coworker who had a misstress and a wife.You always get caught. You have to hide the one away. Secret places and hope you do not get caught. What a wild life know people know this and wondering who will tell your spouse. I want just one woman no having to be a sneak. No marriage to more than one at a time. Dennis Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 02:15 PM Remp, awesome reply!! Good points and an even better stand for Christianity!! Proud to call you my brother!~ Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 04:14 PM thanks storm, i appreciate that. seems things turned out ok, so praise God. evil prevails when good people do nothing. polygamy is dangerous. and like anything else, being open to it, (or being open to being open to it) is the first step down a very bad road. when somebody wants to come on like that, they are trying to control and influence through ambiguity. and it's up to those who know better to not comply or give them ANY credibility. don't leave anything up to chance, them, or gullible people. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 05:30 PM I wish to throw out another thought.Having more than one wife is not a good quality for a husband. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 07:22 PM I think today, Christians shouldnt still be polygimists. When the Hebrews had more than one wife, it was in the early years of history when they still were trying to 'be fruitful and multiply' the earth. Just saying. Post Reply
idaholadylovinggod View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 07:28 PM go get um remp...... thanks for stating what my views are completlly....... Cat:applause::yay: Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 08:41 PM Interesting because I have said many times that a woman does not know what she's getting until she says "I do". And we cannot tell who is a good husband except the ones who are already married. Nonetheless I am not attracted to married men, I only use the good ones as a model for what I want in a husband. It's good to see good Christian men acting lovingly and responsibly with their wives and kids. I just want my own, not someone elses. As far as kids go. If I love and respect my husband then I will respect his children and treat them as my husband wants me to treat them (dignity and respect). I only expect my husband to respect me as well as remember we are a team and consider all matters together as one regarding kids. I am more concerned how my husband will respond to his children concerning respect and discipline than I am about how the kids behave. Kids WILL misbehave, maybe seldom, maybe a lot. What's important is that the husband/father discipline according to the bible and with love not turning a blind eye to the errors of the children. Post Reply

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