Author	Thread: what christian women want in men
jimmypeters27 View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 10 Mar, 2010 10:58 AM Hello ladies. I want to ask you what you really want in a Christian man. What is the most important and how could a man impress you with his first email to get you curious to get to know him? Post Reply
View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 01:26 PM I fall short in one area BC, :ROFL: It is in that other post I wrote.Now, I think it is funny but at the time I did not. That girl in turned me into the campus cops. I just asked her out for ice cream and tried to show a little interest. :ROFL: Well, that is my criminal life. Maybe, because I am a little bit crazy people stay away? Who knows? Who cares? I know what you ladies do not want, a kiss on the 1st date. :buddies: Post Reply
View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 04:22 PM BCgal an all You Lady's are on the mark here !!! Its jus findin that Gent that fits...not perfection, jus perfect for the balance of both persons... Arch ~ keep taken those notes...wanna borrow my notes from etiquet class...I'll share...:rolleyes: Dennis ~ :laugh:...you got that right brother...no kissin on the 1st date...:bow:...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 09:31 AM well said bcpianogal :dancingp: Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 09:33 AM Well.. I'm with the ladies.... You know, I really feel that the profile is a great tool for us to indicate to the man who we are and what we are looking for in a relationship, but we must be truthful about who we really are too. (I tried to do that in my profile.) Not to boast about us, but to just be "honest". I feel, "that" will cut back on a whole lot of unwanted disappointment and even perhaps heartache. Because you, the man, can deside right then, whether you really want to invest the time, you can get an idea if that person is really someone you can truely be yourself with without compromising your own values. There is much to be learned, and shared about who you are, after the initial contact, and going beyond the initial getting to know you's phase.... we go deeper... and that "deeper" phase , well... that's the true test of just how compatible you really become. Then we have to take off the masks around the heart and let one another see what's really inside the heart, and often just how "Christian" we really are. Behind all our lists of what we want, and expect out of our potential man... well... we will ultimately be getting much more than our "lists". What "Mark said... "just be yourself" again, says alot right there! Amen brother. I know we put alot of stuff in our profiles, then you approach us, then we act differently than what we said we wanted... Here again.... once past that first step, you, the man must be discerning too... and be able to step away if what's portrayed doesn't match up to what we say. I babbled here I know... but that's just what I thought after reading the thread. May not've really answered you JimmyP, but my thoughts anyway... ~ GraceMae Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 12:01 PM I agree with all the posts there is something i want and that is someone who is fun/funny to be around i would not want to go out with someone who acts like they have a splinter in their toe. and i want someone who is truthful. Now on the kissing on the first date....I dont agree if i have been talking, and i usually do before i meet anyone, to someone for a while and i already feel like we know eachother then i am fine with a kiss now in sayiing that i dont mean a "get a room kiss" just a nice kiss. blessings Post Reply
View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 06:24 PM after reading all those posts i'm kinda in awe of my requirements . I often wondered why my drive was so curtailed .I'm a slow thinker and talk is not cheap to me , but i don't want to be making things up to talk,that makes me quiver .The overall picture of THIS CHASE between Men and women seems to be like the flip of a coin . Are there others like me who would rather play it safe and just wait for an opportunity to present its-self or do I talk without being comfortable ? Not sure I have any coed type generalizations that would make a woman want to strike up a conversation. I would feel embarrassed at catagorizing my thoughts of previous female conversations being some of those would have to interpretive ; this all seems like harder work than I'd like it to be .Talkin to God is easier than making this post atleast he knows when i'm in error and keeps me grounded. OH HOW LOST DO I FEEL..similar to the TV show I've seen a few times.. No sympathy plz ; no commiseration Plz . Sorry If I sound wishywashy don't mean to present myself that way . Even in church it seems as though the Sexes seem to seperate . well God Bless ..well here goes as he pushes the submit button lol Post Reply
View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 10:22 AM I don't want a guy to 'impress' me. If he is of good integrity and humble and so forth, that in itself will impress me. I don't want him to try to impress me. that demonstrates pride. Post Reply
tonyam View Profile History	what christian women want in men Posted : 29 Jun, 2010 01:12 PM I just recently got out of a relationship with a Christian guy, who moved way too fast for me. He said he loved me one day, then the next it all changed for him.. But as a Christian lady, I want a all around good guy... In all aspects, from Loving God, to making me feel like I'm the most beautiful Woman in the world, and meaning it. Most importantly I want a guy who I can be a "help meet" to, so we can grow old together..I thought I would share one woman's point of view.. Post Reply

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