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shallow
Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 12:34 PM

dear folks, you see this word alot associated with folks who wanna see a pic or even when folks may be looking for someone beautiful to them..as sayin my preference is to be attracted to them outwardly first off..



my question is this, if when you are choosing a potential mate ,if you really think they are beautiful to you and you not only use their attractiveness ,but yet you also look at their many other qualities both inward and their outward qualities that attract you.. does that still make you shallow ,even though you also look inward?



an inqurin mind hehe

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shallow
Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 08:52 AM

spot on ky :)

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shallow
Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 07:44 PM

Eureka! - "I've found it!" :glow:

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Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 09:42 PM

dear gal,, hehe whats that you found?

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Posted : 28 Feb, 2010 08:32 PM

Hey, Cattleman



I just show up everywhere, don't I?:laugh:



You know I like this subject. Pluc and I went around in circles for a while there. Here is my very non-confrontational take on it.



Being shallow has been well defined by everyone. I think that people who are shallow and choose their mate that way, soon learn that character, virtuousness (women), maturity, the following of biblical principles concerning marriage, integrity and about a million other things were wayyyyyyy more relevant.



The attractiveness of our flesh fades with time. Sooner or later we all get grey hair or it falls out. Our sexy walk becomes a shuffle and our teeth may sit in a cup until we need to chew. But our fruit of the Spirit just gets more ripe and better with time.



There is a beauty that I can't describe with words that comes with having Christ on the inside.

And how awesome is it that we are all attractive to someone?

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shallow
Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 05:14 AM

dear b girl,,, hey there.. its good to see ya again.. i was a little surprised to see ya here.. but glad ya made it ..

you made a nice post.. gave me a little chuckle hehe and something to think on.. thanks

ole cattle

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Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 08:02 AM

man i tell u what the way its seems u are i dont think your shallow. i think its very importan the way the woman looks on the outside as wellas the inside. but if your gonna marry someone b/c other people tell you your shallow and your not attracted to their outer beauty, then your marryin them for the wrong reason. you need to know what you want and go get it. if looks and inner beauty are important to you then by all means go get it. God said he will grant the desires of you heart, so whatever your heart desires is what you should pray for. If some tells you your shallow and you have done that their in the wrong

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shallow
Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 01:19 PM

dear jake,,, welcome to the forums..

cool post.. thanks

ole cattle

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Posted : 10 Mar, 2010 12:42 PM

Cattle,

Sorry I am a late starter, but I must invest my two cent on this one... This is my take Shallow:

is skin-deep,

it does not touches the heart,

it is fake

an act that is temporary

and will not endure.



A shallow person is very self centered and is not really focusing on inner but outward gain.Their preconceived intention has nothing to do with God, the other persons feeling instead everything else can be compromised what they want, how to get and how to keep. Individuals who are deep can identify a shallow person within a short time span of being in their company. because they are opposite.

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 09:07 PM

The thing is we are all made in Gods own

image.. If you find falt in a persons looks and never

look at their soul you have missed the

beauty that is our Lord.. But if you look

and see the Lord in every face even if that

face is not beautiful to you.. You have looked

on the face of God..your not shallow

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