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The thing I dont understand.....
Posted : 31 Jan, 2010 04:43 AM

If this is a date site and you ladies are really a child of god. How come when I e-mail to be socialble and meet and greet ya. You dont say hi?...I dont get it?





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Posted : 31 Jan, 2010 10:33 PM

lol sometimes i feel like a dog chasing cars

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2010 11:55 PM

Remp...

You dont LOOK like a dog chasing cars at all, if that helps at all! :glow:

I enjoy yor humor and wit!



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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 01:36 AM

dear remp, lol thats a good un..

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 11:07 AM

I guess there's a time and place with everything. God is the one with all the patients...ummm..I wish I had more sometimes..haha!



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Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 10:22 PM

Patience is the name of the game, but there is other advice you might want to know. Also, other women might think it's cute, but I'd be likely to reject anybody that pulled out a line like remp's. In fact, it happened several times....



From my perspective, I'd say in talking to ladies, highlight the fact that you're vulnerable too. If you're on this site, you are (or were :goofball: ) looking for a potential relationship partner, and that's scary for her; but it's scary for you too, right? Maybe give a reason why you chose to message HER; did her profile have information that intrigued you? Or was did it not say a lot and make you curious? Avoid comments about her appearance; if you comment on pictures, it should be about what she's doing or nothing at all. I can't stress that enough, I've gotten some weird messages....



The best of luck to you, tho. Just remember to try to keep your priorities straight in everything you say and do, online or "IRL". :rolleyes:

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Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 10:22 AM

Anybody can say anything, and a line like mine is no less creepy and certainly less pathetic and just as likely to get a response as saying 'hi i'm feeling kinda vulnerable, but am interested in getting to know you. want to talk? how are you?'

I think alot more messages would be answered, even if it was 'sorry i'm not interested', if the roles were switched for a year and the girls where the ones that had to try so hard to get some one they're interested in to respond to them and had to go through all that garbage, and guys could just sit back and have the pick of the litter.

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Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 10:50 AM

Hi Yall, ya know I was jus thinkin bout this...an what poped in my mind is...when women started this whole womens lib stuff...it messed up the balance betwixt men an women as GOD designed...so...women havta work jus as hard or harder to earn there pay checks plus ifin there are kids or family ta attend to...life gets busy...an well...sometimes there aint no time for taken care of stuff or yer self...Sorry I was ramblin thoughts...dont know why...jus did...lol...

Back onto the Traintrack...Yup...women can be shy an some dont really know what they want...I believe most that do not reply are not active on the site much as shared already or they jus really arent interested and dont know how to respond so they dont...which is rude, but it is what it is...The Grid/Net...jus be patient...an enjoy the peoples here...

Oh by the way...afor I forget...HI..!!!...:waving:...xo

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Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 05:03 PM

I dont believe you can take away the money and responsiblity thing and shove it out the window..



I mean it..Money and responsiblity aint the factor ...it's love. I seen it it my life. My sister is in love with a guy that ..haha! Is worthless ..nice guy but he isnt worh a dime. God loves him yes but he's worthless to me.



I ask my sister why do u love him she says He's a great dad and I'm so in love with him. So you can fight true love...Ya just cant!!

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Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 11:47 PM

yea its the same ol thing for me man and its terrible

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 01:53 PM

Sorry Mag11. I may have missed a couple inadvertently; but I have made it one of my goals to respond to all contacts until they fade away. I even thank those who review my profile, and don't contact me. To me, it is just "good old common courtesy" that I was taught in NC.

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