Author	Thread: STD
Admin	STD Posted : 26 Jan, 2010 05:45 PM Ladies: if 1 out of 4 has herpes, not to mention other Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD). Is that a concern for you? or is it not, if you are of the position God has picked this man for you? Then, when are these issues discussed? Most on this site, profess to obstain from pre-marital sex. How does one "prove" it? Is it totally outrageous to get a doctor's note? I know i would get one to give. And, hey, let's be gut honest. Who would knowingly date a man with a STD? Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 07:09 PM Yes it was a concern even when I was married. It will always be a concern to me, that will probably never change. When the issues are discussed I hope the time would be comfortable enough to be discussed anytime but only when the other party seems to find that time. I don't think I would ask someone to prove their choice in not having pre marital sex. I would know that it wasn't me he ACTED otherwise on LOL so I would have to go with I would just have to catch him lying lol ....and I would help my match by not discriminating his past actions to actually ask him for a doctors note. I know I can be emotional with some issues But, with the right man I think that I am capable and able to work things out to get better results for the partnership (relationship).GivenLife to be gut honest I dont know if anyone would say you want to go out I have STD...so one out of 4 of us probably already has if you been out lately....just saying you never know huh? GivenLife I have to edit a few details I think that I need to change on this post....1st my comments about STD toward your questions is not to encourage others that they should have any pre marital sex or have sex with someone with STD....I believe I am going to stop getting on the forums with topics based on sex and someone asking opinions on this personal topic.It should be avoided to me....GivenLife Post Reply
cherished2 View Profile History	STD Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 11:56 PM Ladies....I certainly understand your views and concerns about STDs. You would be a fool NOT to be concerned. However, all the talk about testing causes me to throw in my two cents. There are almost 40 types of sexually tramsmitted diseases, some easily detected, and some tests cost thousands of dollars each. Usually men do not even know of they are carrying most of them. They dont affect the males like they do the ladies (Most causing serility), and thus go undetected. Herpes are nearly impossible to detect by tests unless they are active at the time... So, we girls are left with the choice to be wise and to seek the Holy Spirit for guidance and make sure you know the person well. The Spirit does reveal things to us that we are not able to discern on our own... and He will keep us safe in every area. The Lord can be our source of protection ... and that is enough!! Just and FYI.... several years ago I went to a huge Christian youth rally (Aquire the Fire) where there was a speaker who sat on President Bush's council. She said that if you are under the age of 24, and sleep with someone that is NOT a virgin, statistically, you stand 100% chance of being exposed to an STD. Now, statistics are strange creations, but that fact is enough to keep you out of places you shouldnt be! Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 12:06 AM I once owned a 2003 8 seat STD. Ran great! I don't understand what all the hoopla is about? Post Reply
liv2luvudeeply View Profile History	STD Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 07:11 AM Wow arch if there was ever a well timed post to lighten things up...yours was it! T Post Reply
Ladybug2009 View Profile History	STD Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 09:36 AM I'm new to the site and am not trying to offend anyone in what I say. I believe in no premarital sex. I believe after you get to know one another, but before falling in love, a couple needs to agree on both being tested for any STD's. It's just the way I feel Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 09:50 AM Archi send me a pick of your STD! An 8 seater huh. Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 01:32 PM dear ladybug, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 08:40 AM new thought; Is how the person get the STD important? I noticed that some of you said you would not date such a person. What if they were the loyal spouse who caught from a unfaithful spouse? Dennis Post Reply
coej View Profile History	STD Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 11:55 AM STD's are a concern. Not only for my future partner, but for myself. Yes, I have only had one partner (my x), however, he cheated. Before I ever get to the point of getting re-married, I plan on getting a full physical to make sure that I don't have anything that was passed on to me by my x. I would expect that my future husband would have the same respect for me, so we both know what we are getting ourselves into. I hope this makes sense!! Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 30 Jan, 2010 12:31 AM dear coej, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply

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