Author	Thread: what to say in a first email
Admin	what to say in a first email Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 03:18 PM I see women on here that i'm interested in talking to and I do read their profiles and try and ask something i read in the profile but i get no response at all. So I'm wondering what are things you should ask or say when you first message someone. Thanks Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	what to say in a first email Posted : 6 Jan, 2010 08:43 AM Golden, I'd be happy to share the name of the other site...but I don't want to post the name of the other site on here and I don't meet your message requirements... Would you adjust your settings or message me first? Thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	what to say in a first email Posted : 7 Jan, 2010 08:17 PM under this "ask a gal" response, this gal will tell you there is probably a successful forumula, but ask a guy who has had success. I will agree women tend to be "fickled", however, that's why "love" when it's share is truly devine. I do not share the position that it is just women who are rude and do not respond to interest extended on this site. I've sent three winks and two messages and received no response...even one to a Lutheran pastor! I've recently moved to the Midwest and was sending feelers out in the area. This situation is about those men, not me. :nahnah: this may be just a bridge until you meet that woman face to face not through a dating web site. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	what to say in a first email Posted : 7 Jan, 2010 09:25 PM Hi my brother brandon. Well, I think for starters, try commenting something sincerely, nice about their profile picture or something written in their profile that you like. That's all. First of all you need to "fix" your mindset that some women are going to be either turned on to you, or not after they go and look at your pic and profile, and that determines whether or not they will respond back to you. It's just quite that simple. So once you accept that, life will be much easier for you as the male initiator. (Of course for us women.... it's a little different) If you don't get a response, then continue on in your pursuit. Fix your mindset and you'll be ok. Your endeavors manuvering (spelling ck!) through this site is an adventure, so you enjoy it. You can't go wrong brandon, just be encouraged that each time you try to reach out to someone, it can only help you and you'll be that much more of a strong, even approachable man as you've conquered these slight innocent forms of what you might call rejection, but really preparation tests for "the one" that's going to "knock you off your feet"! Yes, I'm being ever so hopeful and dreamy for you!! Pulling for your successs at your Godly dream woman!! :yay: Go for it! ~ GraceMae Post Reply

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