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aniontedbachelor

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 06:31 PM

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 19 Dec, 2009 12:36 PM

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 19 Dec, 2009 06:40 PM

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 19 Dec, 2009 06:46 PM

I read a good book by Kris Vallotton called Purity, new moral revolution.

If the 2 are going out by themselves make it a public place. Otherwise it's best to go with another couple. No touching, holding hands is ok. ;)

When 2 people kiss, it prepares the body for sex (french kissing)by arousal. That should also be a no-no.

The whole idea of dating is to get to know the other person and see if your compatible, not getting to know each others body. We have to remember that the person we date is God's daughter/son, His chosen. We have to respect each other. If the person your dating wants to take things to the next level physically, it is your responsibility to say no way and run like heck.



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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 20 Dec, 2009 07:03 PM

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 20 Dec, 2009 11:50 PM

you date with the intention to marry.

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Posted : 21 Dec, 2009 08:23 PM

absolutely agree with mukwano

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Posted : 21 Dec, 2009 09:38 PM

I think overrall, dating should be prohibit if you don't have the intention on marrying. No I don't think it would be wise to go to each other's house while dating.That's making provision for your flesh as well as putting faith in your flesh. Should you go on a one on one date or double date? Honestly you know you better than any one else, so use wisdom and sound judgement when doing so is what I think when it comes down to that, touching a women is an no no, I Corth.7:1 the Bible clearly tells us that it's not good for a man to touch a women.

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 22 Dec, 2009 12:41 PM

Very good point Mukwano ' dating with the intention of marriage'

not that we should rush into marriage but our intentions are right which is to benefit the other person and not ourselves. Good point Mukwano.

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what are the ground rules for christian dating?
Posted : 24 Jan, 2010 09:05 PM

One of my favorite phrases considering dating is "make haste...slowly". Meaning...make your intentions known early, but take it slow to the alter. Gotta get to know the person extremely well...and more often than not, you learn a lot about yourself that you didn't know in the process. Ideally, you will be with this person for a very long time...make sure you both can handle each others company. Don't get married and then find out you can't stand them...that is one of the worst mistakes anyone can make.



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