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I could use some advice
Posted : 18 Nov, 2009 03:44 PM

My names Ryan, just so everyone knows, I joined here about a month or two ago. Let me first explain why I am on here. I have never been on a date, I have like a bunch of girls but one donwside I have been struggling with is going up to a woman and asking her out or if she wants to hang out.I have been working on that. I do like a girl, the thing is is that she is currently attending cedarville university in ohio and I feel like its too late to ask her out(If you want to know more about this just ask, I'd be happy to explain it more). I am currently going to college and am in my second year, the tihing is is that my college used to be an all guys college a long time ago but cahnged over to both guys and girls and there are not a whole lot of girs there, let alone christian woman. My workplace does not have any christian woman either, so I didnt really have any other options other than online dating. My church does have college girls from a loacl bible college but none of them really come to a college and career group we have and the ones that do already have boyfriends.



Now, I have been on here a for about a month or two and so far I have talked with 2-3 girls that have replyed that they are not interested others have viewed my profile and just havent responded to my messages. Am I doing something wrong? Is my profile ok? Sometimes I think that they see me and just dont see me as attractive and just dont bother. I dont know maybe I'm just being doubtful. I'm really a nice down to earth guy who just wants to meet and talk with someone that could be a future siginificant other.



Am I too young? I'm currently 19 and will be 20 on jan 15. What age group should I message, I have been messaging 18-21 yr olds. It also seems like everyone I have seen in pa, either dosnt get back to me, or just are not on anymore.



My last question is that is it ok to message people form out of state. For example, I live in Lancaster Pa, so would it be ok to message people for maryland, new jersey, deleware, basically surrounding states?



I appologize for my long post, I'm new to this online dating thing and have alot of questions. If anyone would like to be my friend on her for when I need help that would be something I would appreciate.



Thanks, Ryan

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I could use some advice
Posted : 21 Nov, 2009 08:40 AM

thanks for the advice likeualot.about grammer.Dennis:rocknroll:

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