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Admin	god told me Posted : 15 Nov, 2009 03:56 AM god told me that i am to marry this women about six months ago, i been praying about it a lot, well i like the women, we flirt but yet she dont want to date me and just be friends. which is cool with me, i have to respect that choice. but god will not let me go of the fact that he told me to tell her. do wreck the friendship and tell her what god showed/told me or not tell her? this is something that has moved me, challenged me and made me think and learn about god. do i tell her something like this? Post Reply
View Profile History	god told me Posted : 16 Nov, 2009 01:24 PM The friends who told me about Jesus were married this way.The man said god told him to look up and you will find your wife. He did, she was standing at the alter getting prayer.He started to date her and soon afterwards told her.She was young and very scared by it.But she did it.Today they are divoraced,WHY????? He the man goes to church off and on.Never tell some one that you 2 are going to get married just let it happen. Post Reply
View Profile History	god told me Posted : 16 Nov, 2009 07:08 PM ya you are all right, i dont know what got in me. god did show me her and give stuff, us humans like to twist all up into something. rather a friend then not, if something happens it happens. the last six months i wanted a girlfirend and get a marryed, never wanted to before. thanks Post Reply
View Profile History	god told me Posted : 17 Nov, 2009 03:46 PM You are young yet.relax, many of us did something like this and made a clown out of ourselves.I laugh at some of my screw ups. Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	god told me Posted : 17 Nov, 2009 05:07 PM You can have confidence in the words of wise brothers like cattleman and archmedes, Jesse. Anyone will tickle your ears - it takes those with integrity and a bit of the prophet's gift to tell you a difficult truth. Perservere, P Post Reply
nat4god View Profile History	god told me Posted : 21 Nov, 2009 08:31 AM hi I think if a guy came up and said "God told me to marry you" my first reaction would be "well he didnt tell me" Is it possible that you have a burden to pray for her, and be a blessing to her and you are confusing this? how long have you known her? God is her father, would a loving father not expect his daugther to have boundaries and a descerning heart? perhaps if you tell her first that the Lord has been putting her on your mind to pray for her, then as she has confidence in your walk with the Lord, she may see that you are a desirable husband, not because "God said" but because you demonstrated a genuine care for her and took the spiritual lead in offering to minister to her. A womans heart can be warmed if she trusts that you are a true follower of Christ. That you will pray for her. Go to church with her, show her over time that you are for real. Dont pray for God to change her mind...You pray for her needs, for her blessings, allow God to put her burdens on your heart and minister to her. Nat Post Reply
View Profile History	god told me Posted : 22 Nov, 2009 03:35 PM Be careful! Men become infatuated by looks and if you do not have a foundation for a relationship it will come across as a simple "Lust of the Eyes" and not well received. If she is flirting with you but says she has no other desire than to be friends watch out! I'd say flee, have no more contact. If it is God He will bring it back around. And if it causes worry and anxiety it is not from God. God's way brings peace and rest to the soul. You really need a mate that brings you closer not farther away from the Lord. Post Reply

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