Author	Thread: I i had money (which i do not)
rbj66 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 28 Mar, 2025 05:38 AM how would women look at it if i preferred to date and marry a woman with little money? Could it be construed as controlling? I have met many women, a couple of them here and one recently, and it seems there is a bigger attitude with a bigger bank account. Good on you to go and get it, but i see a huge flaw in their logic about love. There are studies that show married couples with less have more, and the biggest cause of divorce is money. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 2 Apr, 2025 05:03 AM HM I don't have to make anything up your like to come on topics and add Lies.. What I do is none of your Business you don't know me! You online mostly you degrading Women in general on site. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 2 Apr, 2025 08:34 AM silver761 You're only partially right. Where you missed it is all women are looking for men with money not just some. He has to make equal to or more than they have. And yes there are many women in deep debt and all expect a man to come along and assume their debt. Hypergamy is alive and well. Women want a man that's going to make her life better than it currently is. And now with women's addiction to social media. Women see other peoples lives whether it's faked or real is causing women to want lives like they are seeing on their phones and so now are looking for men that they think can give them that life. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 3 Apr, 2025 03:41 AM I’m yet to meet a man that’s not controlling to a greater or lesser degree. I think that any man who would seek out a woman with little to no money is clearly going to use finances to control her. Most women would jump at the chance of a man to provide financially for them. But you should always have your own money even if you’re not using for the day to day expenses…:-) Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 3 Apr, 2025 07:41 AM So Jayzeee in the Bible it states that women are to be submissive to their husbands. So if that's so why would a husband have to control his wife with finances? If wives were obeying scriptures then her husband would already be in charge. It's feminism that tells women to have their own money and to be in charge of the marriage. This website is full of women who believed that and divorced their husbands because they wouldn't submit to them. God put men in charge for a reason. Women are not equipped to run the family and one only needs to look at the state of dating and marriage to see the result of that feminist foolishness. Men have made it so easy and comfortable to live in the modern world that women think men contribute very little and women contribute far more than they actually do. If men were to disappear off the earth most women would die within weeks and the rest within months. Men provide everything that women take for granite from the water that comes out of the faucet to the cars they drive and the food they eat. Women can't even raise children as good as men. Children raised by divorced or single women especially boys are more likely not to going to college or dropping out and ending up in prison. But the same can't be said when raised by men. The children have much better outcomes. Ideally children have the best outcomes when they are raised by both parents but to many women are ok with sacrificing their children's outcomes for their own perceived happiness. On the other hand men will gladly sacrifice their happiness for their children. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 3 Apr, 2025 09:16 AM I don’t know why a man would want to control his wife with finances but it happens. I know of one women who if she wanted to purchase anything had to ask her husband (now ex) for money. He also didn’t buy a pushchair for their baby for many months preventing her from leaving their flat. Thankfully that wasn’t my experience, I got money every month from my ex partner.…:-) Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 5 Apr, 2025 11:27 AM I seriously doubt you're getting the accurate story from your friend. Women readily lie to save face. Accountability is a woman's kryptonite. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 6 Apr, 2025 03:39 AM It’s not a friend it’s a family member this happened over 30 years ago. This situation stood caution to me that young woman needs to be careful if thinking of marrying a much older man…:-) Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 6 Apr, 2025 01:07 PM So foolish of you to automatically believe her just because she's a part of your family. Family doesn't deserve to be believed over someone else just because you're related. In fact family is more likely to lie to another family member because they don't want to be looked down on by their family even more than a non relative. And then theirs the older man who has a lot more experience and is likely withholding money because he already found out your relative can't be trusted with money so he's doing the smart thing and not allowing her to throw away his hard earned money. But your quick to take her side and blame him. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 8 Apr, 2025 11:22 PM Wow you have created a whole narrative in your head that the woman is wrong & the man right with no knowledge of the situation smh…:-) Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I i had money (which i do not) Posted : 8 Apr, 2025 11:28 PM I would caution any woman it’s nice for a man to want to take care of you but always have your own…:-) Post Reply

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