Author	Thread: A question of love and ability...
Admin	A question of love and ability... Posted : 23 Apr, 2020 09:25 PM Hello ladies. I come to you all with a question that is not intended to make anyone feel bad, but that the answer would give me a better idea of how realistic it is that I will find love again. I married my first girlfriend from high school. 25 years together, 22 of which we were married. 4 children together. We were Christians before we met. 5 years ago I had a spinal injury that left me partially paralyzed from the waist down. I have slowly been healing and may even one day be 100% or very close. Until then I’ll use a wheelchair to get around as I cannot walk yet, though I do short distances with a walker. Well I found out last year that my wife had a year and a half long affair. Now I find myself at 41 having had exactly 1 girlfriend/spouse/partner in my entire life. Women have proven to become immediately uninterested when they find out I am in a chair. I am only limited by walking, not in any other capacity. They say they like me and find me attractive before finding out about the chair, but lose interest as soon as they learn about it. So now I don’t know whether to be so upfront about it that I never get a chance for a woman to get a chance to know me, or get to know each other first and then talk about it when the subject naturally presents itself the time to do so? Do I just have to accept that I am doomed to a significantly less chance of finding love because my chair limits me for now and maybe for always? Feel free to ask any questions you want, I’m an open book and very honest about everything. Thanks for your time! Post Reply
m477 View Profile History	A question of love and ability... Posted : 10 May, 2020 10:15 AM FORGET honesty ! TAKE A CHANCE and lure them into some talk. Maybe you strike a resonant chord. YOU DON'T STAND A CHANCE otherwise ! 20 year olds FIT and GOOD looking don't have a chance in this IMAGE (and CA$H !) DOMINATED world. God be with you , and maybe you find one that gives you a second thought when you tell her the truth. Take this email with you - and show to her. Post Reply
m477 View Profile History	A question of love and ability... Posted : 10 May, 2020 10:19 AM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8-lI5Zm3aI Post Reply

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