Author	Thread: If a guy became interested in you only because...
Admin	If a guy became interested in you only because... Posted : 2 Oct, 2014 06:08 PM Earlier this year I started talking to a girl on here, and I thought we were becoming friends. At least, that was my first impression, but I was wrong. She wasn't interested at all. And let me stop here for a second and say this: Ladies, if you are not interested in a guy at all, then don't send him a message! This is a dating site, and it can be very confusing if you send a message without any purpose. So, back to my story. We were having a conversation, and after about a week, she started asking me why I am interested in her ...as if I had started the whole conversation. It was her who started writing me in the first place, but now she was surprised that I was interested in her. So, her question was why am I interested in her? why am I talking to her? what makes her different than others? And I gave her an honest reply. I told her that she is pretty. Immediately after I said that, she turned against me and assumed that I am some kind of pervert. I have no idea what she was thinking, but she became very hostile in an instant and didn't ask any more questions. At first, I didn't understand why she became so angry at me. But later as I was thinking about this whole thing, I understood what happened. And I learned a lesson that day. Telling a girl that I am interested in her only because she is pretty is like a girl telling me that she is interested in me only because I have money. If a girl told me that she is after my house or wealth, my reaction would be the same. I would shut her off immediately. Therefore, I think, it is not smart to be 100% open and honest about what we're after, at least, not in the beginning. I wonder what else is there that women don't like to hear right after we meet? What kind of compliments are okay and what are not okay? If a girl told me that I have a great personality or I'm smart, handsome, funny, skillful, responsible, kind, or strong, I would be flattered. Those are nice things to hear! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	If a guy became interested in you only because... Posted : 8 Oct, 2014 04:30 AM Bro,I don't see anything wrong with what you said.And those are the things you can say to a person when you meet coz you don't know much about them. To me that would have been a nice thing. Maybe she had her other problems. And something else,this is not 'All Women'...it was that particular woman.So if you get another don't hesitate to tell her she is pretty. Post Reply
View Profile History	If a guy became interested in you only because... Posted : 25 Oct, 2014 10:40 AM 'I want to marry you because your face pleases me' Are you honestly surprised that she was offended that the reason you are interested in her is because of her looks? Have you ever seen a beautiful woman's profile without at least 10 favourites? Too many men hound women because of their looks. Looks can change instantly after damage, or fade with time. Can you honestly not find something nice about people? Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	If a guy became interested in you only because... Posted : 27 Oct, 2014 08:21 PM Ummmmm...maybe subconsciously, this is way I've decided to try a subtle test and not post a pic for a while here(smile)! And believe it or not, already I've had someone message me with an initial greeting of, "Hi pretty", LOL!!! Stranger things have happened...go figure(smile)!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	If a guy became interested in you only because... Posted : 31 Oct, 2014 12:04 AM If you are serious and want to know how to compliment a girl. Then you must read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnige and "How to Have Power and Confidence in Dealing with People" by Les Giblin. These two books alone will help you in every area in your life especially women. If that's your goal. What everyone else says maybe good but learning principles instead of techniques should be your goal. Well its up to you to read those books. I can't recommend those books enough. Post Reply

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