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What's the point of superficiality?
Posted : 7 Nov, 2013 02:22 PM

I wonder what is the point in online dating if you are going to dismiss 98% of people for whatever superficial reason, then magically expect that the guy/girl who looks like a perfect 10 is also a good person/christian? I mean why don't you just join a modeling dating site and also expect there that she/he is a good person or christian after picking them? You will be more honest with yourself and save yourself the headache of hurting others along the way...



Many people here truly expect their match to unrealistically have it all together. Personality wise, looks, financial , spirituality and if the person struggles with one of these POOF they are gone. These are not Christians, real Christians know we live in a sinful world where perfection does not exist.You can tell when they stop emailing you as soon as they know you still don't have a job, or you don't like a hobbies they adore or just because your eyes are not the right color, what BS is this?



Are you trying to tell me you are so high in your godly horse he has this amazing person that others never got because it doesn't simply exist? You are 30 then 40 then older and still no one is good enough? I just simply feel like cancelling my account.

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What's the point of superficiality?
Posted : 11 Nov, 2013 03:14 AM

Human beings have preferences in all that they do and i think its only natural.

One has to like and be attracted to the other for them to start anything.They don't have to be supermodels but you have to have some attraction.

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What's the point of superficiality?
Posted : 20 Nov, 2013 11:45 AM

Actually most guys avoid woman that are of "super model" quality beauty because of various stereotypes. Everyone has certain physical markers that they have come to avoid over time. One of mine is eyebrows, they they are oddly or horribly plucked run forest RUN. Odd I know but true.

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