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Admin	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 04:45 PM Ladies, When you ask us " Do you think that I am fat?" (or something along those lines), what is the best way for us guys to answer? The times that I have been confronted with this question, I never felt like I got the answer right. :laugh: Thanks in advance for your feedback ladies. Post Reply
View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 03:39 AM I am with Curious on this one. I really believe that a lady would ask that question so as to get a really honest answer from the person she loves, someone she calls her best friend and someone that she trusts will tell her the truth however bitter it may be. so why would you be unfair to her by pretending around? to please her? NO! That is so unfair guys! Post Reply
View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 05:22 AM I have come to realise that what she is looking for is afirmation and love. At that moment she is feeling uncomfortable and unsure about her looks for various reasons. So what I have learned to do is ask her how she feels about her self and tell her that its important to me that she feels comfortable with her own body. I reinforce how much I love her no matter what she looks like then just hold her if needed. I wont lie over anyhting even santa clause. Satisfying her needs while being a man of integrity. That is what she needs. Now if she is looking for a honest answer about a certain article of clothes i will tell her my honest assesment. Post Reply
View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 09:12 AM Very true Shamah:) If I ever asked such a question I know I am seeking an honest answer to work on it. Post Reply

share1033 View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 11:34 AM I agree that most women who ask this question are looking for afirmation. As a woman who has been overweight and selfconsious about myself I love the answer about giving her afirmation and holding her or giving her love as she is. Post Reply
okiekansas777 View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 09:08 AM Why ask if something makes you look fat when you already know that by medical terms you are obese. Ugh...I just really want to know if the outfit looks nice on me so I don't ask those loaded questions. Post Reply
Guardian143 View Profile History	The question all men hate to answer Posted : 9 Jun, 2013 05:51 PM I always plead the fifth! Post Reply