Author	Thread: Please be honest
Admin	Please be honest Posted : 11 Jul, 2012 06:02 AM Second virginity, third, forth etc..................> Who believes this and who thinks this is nonsense. The definition of a virgin is a person being either male or female who has never engaged in sexual activity. When married I could never go back and undo those memories of my past experiences. The faces I have seen and the emotions I have felt. They have become part of me. I could never go back and feel the terror and exileration of being exposed before the opposite sex for the first time. I could never go back and erase the guilt and feeling of lonliness after. Having to reject or be rejected by someone I was intimate with physically. I could never believe the woman if not a true virgin could do the same. We lost something precious when we engaged for the first time in physical activity with the opposite sex. Can we live a celibit life, yes we can. Can we live in self controll today? yes we can. But obstaining from sex does not equate virginity to me. Unless we experience total amnesia of the mind and soul our choices will remain with us until we are purified in glory. Lets not decieve our own souls. Are we forgiven , absolutly. But virginity is the first time we give our selves to another. For many of us that is lost but for you who still have yours intact. Remain........ Dont allow the lies of needing to try it our before you buy or any other such pressure like you can be a second or third virgin decieve your soul. What you have is precious and protect what you have and be sure the one you give this precious gift to one day will cherish this gift and not pervert it. I am sorry to you who this is going to offend and I know it is going to offend many but it needs to be said and I have to be the one with courage to do so. Post Reply
View Profile History	Please be honest Posted : 12 Jul, 2012 10:09 AM Second, Third, Fourth..... Nonesense. Virginity is just once. Come on! When did we become so super smart to change what God meant it to be? Post Reply
GraceAndKindness View Profile History	Please be honest Posted : 12 Jul, 2012 04:32 PM Not offended Not a virgin Not guilty Did feel like I'd lost 'something' as they say, even though he married me months later Am forgiven of sexual sins Do believe that no matter the past, a Godly marriage can have a sexual relationship more awesome than either has ever known. Maybe the key is exactly what Paul said (somebody correct me if I'm stretching here..) "forgetting whats behind and reaching for those things that are before" Grateful for the openess here Post Reply
PrincessofRedeemer View Profile History	Please be honest Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 01:36 PM Grace and Kindness: So good you dont live in guilt, You are free as we all are in our LOrd and King so glad you proclaim His vicotry over your life!!! I think your honesty and wisdom here is lovely sister:) Let this mind: Yes virginity is only once...i have only been with my husband in marriage..I am divorced so I am celibate until I marry again. I was a virgin the night I married my husband, I am not now, that is a feeling of loss after being abused and cheated on and having him remarry after I filed to protect myself and my children. I cant have my virginity back nor can I have the man I married, he is gone, gone with another woman and gone in a spiritual sense as not the same man I knew who I supported during his Pastor training. It is sad and tragic. But ya know what, so is life, but Jesus is the Grace, He is the Victory and He is the ONLY 100% PURE person in every way the unblemished lamb which we all are allowed to find our cleansing from all unrighteousness as scripture states. Having saud all that, I have never used the words secondary virginity for myself but many Crisis PRegmancy centers encourage young women to take on this stance as to remind themselves that God gives them a second chance and a third and so on and to remind them that a husband someday will honor thier efforts. Some of these girls have even given birth to and put up for adoption their children to ahve a betterl life. Now that is love, if they want to call themselves a secondary virgin, as long as they are honest about it to their husband, that is what matters. :angel: Post Reply

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