Author	Thread: single father weird situation need suggestions BAD
Rhs32 View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 15 Jun, 2012 06:23 PM Ok I have a daughter that I love and would do anything in the world for of course. However she is midway through primary school and misses her family being together of course. me and mother split 2 yrs ago. We were never married and we are def not good for each other and will not be getting back together so problem is me and her mother were together since she was 3 months pregnant with her. Yes not biologically my daughter :( she doesnt know her real dad so I am still allowed to see her on a regular schedule and help pay for things but never adopted her. So I have no rights. AND I get reminded of that all the time by numerous acts. I would never bad mouth mother to daughter and dont wanna play games that will make it confusing for my daughter but I can only be a doormat to the situation for so long before i get upset. If i dont do as told I will be pulled out of her life it has happened before. my daughters worth it of course so i dont mind however I have no say in anything. How can I try to get her mother to help work WITH me with our daughter and not against me. Post Reply
Sugar_and_Spice View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 21 Jun, 2012 09:25 AM legally you are not her father, unless of course you signed her birth certificate or something. so sad truth is that you have no "right" to have any sort of custody. but no matter how hard and complicated situations are, God is can definitely work miracles about that. I pray that someday you will find a solution to the problem you are facing now. I hope I may find someone like you, who will treat and love my son as his own child. Post Reply
View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 06:46 AM Out of curiosity, how old is the daughter? (Can we just stop with all the people going, "legally she's not your daughter?" The OP knows that. The OP said as much. That's the problem. Not helpful). Post Reply
Rhs32 View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 01:55 PM she is 8 now. Post Reply
View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 17 May, 2013 10:31 PM Wow, that's pretty good of you to go that far for a kid that is not your biological but get this...It doesn't take blood to make a dad. I am proud of you and I don't know you. I wish my kid's REAL dad was as good of a dad as you. If you have money for an attorney I would suggest going ahead and adopting her. Take the Mother to court you have every right to have RIGHTS to this cild. message me if you want Post Reply
View Profile History	single father weird situation need suggestions BAD Posted : 18 May, 2013 03:57 AM This is a old post and I do not know if it will be read by the OP. Here is the advice of a dad who has legal rights. Legal rights do not matter. Any time one tries to force their rights it causes hurt. What is it with all these christians who want to force their rights? Is not Jesus our example? Did not Jesus give up all His rights? Just continue to love your daughter. She will be yours forever because every little girl wants a man to love her. Be a peace maker as much as possible and reinforce her mothers decision to allow you into your daughters life and being a good thing for both of them. So what if the mom uses you some. Know your boundries and stick to them and God will protect you, promised. Every thing is from God anyway, right? Consider your support as a gift to God in help of the fatherless. Give freely and give generously as God enables you to give. No more no less. Peace brother. Post Reply

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