Author	Thread: Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys?
Admin	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 26 Jan, 2009 09:23 PM Hi.I'm new to this site and I have a question. Why do some of the sweetest girls go out with some of the baddest boys? I'm not jealous of these bad boys and just in case your wondering, to me a bad boy is someone who drinks excessively,uses alot of profanity,and has a bad attitude. I know some of them have personal problems and that's why they are the way they are, but do these girls really have to go out with them? Why not help them by getting to know them as their friend and then share Jesus with them that way? God bless anyone who reaches out to them but do they really have to go as far as become their girlfriends? Any advice on the matter will really be respected and appreciated. Thank you and god bless. Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 31 Jan, 2009 11:23 PM It all comes down to one thing....some people are under the delusion that they can change someone. They can take a person with a reputation and mold them into something that they can be proud to be paired up with. The worst part about it is that they keep being attracted to the same type of person and keep thinking, "Maybe this one will be different...." and usually they're not. Meanwhile...the best ones are being taken and now the delusional has to go through life knowing that the one they're suppose to be with is with someone else. Just human nature. Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 31 Jan, 2009 11:46 PM Btw...we guys are smarter than that. Good guys won't touch a woman with a reputation. Most good guys who would change a woman are doing it to improve the relationship. Examples: "Have you ever thought about changing your hair style...maybe trying something different?" "Honey, I was thinking we should have a garage sale, I've got some stuff to sell. I there anything in the spare closet you'd like to get rid of? There's a lot of stuff you don't even wear." "Sweetie, all you ever wear are those flannels, if you're not going to wear the nighties I got you, have you thought about just putting on one of my t-shirts?" "Guess what babes, I've noticed I was putting on a couple of pounds. I was online and found these cookbooks with some low calorie recipes. I was thinking maybe we could try some of them out." "I got us these gym memberships for our anniversary so we could spend some time together and workout the tension we bring home from work." I ask you ladies...is that bad? Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 1 Feb, 2009 06:35 PM Lol, Ephesians, you do like to walk on the edge of the blade/skate on thin ice. While not exactly bad, a gentleman would need to be VERY careful of WHEN he said those things and HOW he said them. Just as certain things are taboo with guys, the same applies with ladies. As long as you know your love's buttons and are not pushing them, go for it. Otherwise, be glad there are come couches and recliners that sleep almost as well as your bed. Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 1 Feb, 2009 08:18 PM Elisa, That's where honesty gets a guy....a night on the couch. Not even using tact helps. Wonder why a guy doesn't answer a question about what he's really thinking about the relationship? But that is an issue for another thread. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 1 Feb, 2009 09:31 PM Why try to change someone you are with thinking that they will change when truth is , a persons desire to change has to come from with in....I know I was married to the kind of person I thought I could change. He stayed mad at something all the time and over half the time, I did'nt even know what started it to tick him off. Therefore, I spent alot of my time walking on eggshells just to make him happy. Truth was , I had to face the fact that I could not change him . Have a great night and Godbless, Arlena Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Do Good Girls Go Out With Bad Boys? Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 03:58 PM Hi.I'm new to this site and I have a question. Why do some of the sweetest girls go out with some of the baddest boys? I'm not jealous of these bad boys and just in case your wondering, to me a bad boy is someone who drinks excessively,uses alot of profanity,and has a bad attitude. I know some of them have personal problems and that's why they are the way they are, but do these girls really have to go out with them? Why not help them by getting to know them as their friend and then share Jesus with them that way? God bless anyone who reaches out to them but do they really have to go as far as become their girlfriends? Any advice on the matter will really be respected and appreciated. Thank you and god bless. Because they are liars and good at it. jk Half the time they are convincing with who they are in the first place. That is all I can say for the good girls half of the argument and the bad boys will have to explain why they want a good girl. I would have to say it would be good girls must be easier to lie to convince and control. Good girls dont know how to just hurt the man he probably was when she meet him. Post Reply

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