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What about Chemistry?
Posted : 25 Aug, 2011 12:11 AM

"Don't know much about History"

"Don't know much Biology"

"Don't know much about a Science book"

"Don't know much about the French I took"





Would it be fair to say that despite all of your criteria...despite everything that you are looking for in a man (well, not Everything)



that...Chemistry...TRUMPS everything else?







I mean if a guy has those "dreamy" eyes that just turn you into a pool of "Blub"...wouldn't something like that be difficult to Ignore?







If the guy is McDreamy or McSteamy and he comes up a little "short" on some of the things you are looking for...but...he is TOTALLY into you...would you not go for it?







Answer Truthfully!

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2011 02:34 AM

Wow!...



Some Eloquent�Articulate Responses! I was being somewhat glib when I asked this question�but now I very glad I did. As a man I have always tried to look my very best and placed a great deal of Importance on my �Appearance�.



As I�ve �Aged� (I hate that word)�I see myself as �Less Desirable� and�well�with �Two Strikes� on me. It is good to hear from some very Erudite and Sophisticated Women that �looks� while of Importance does not �Trump� Character.



I have always Valued what a Woman �Brings� into a Relationship (Spiritually�Intellectually�Emotionally) more so than what I can �Gain� from her being in a Relationship with me (Physical�Talents�Assets).



What I mean is that while the Physical Attraction is what Initially gets my attention�it is the Conversation and her Strength of Character and Convictions and Intelligence and Spirituality�that will Keep Me in the Relationship



Time will Change a person�s Outside but their True Self only gets Better with Time.



For me Chemistry is her Devotion to God or her

Smile or

the way her Eyes Sparkle when she Laughs

or her Fearless Nature

or how she makes me have to Think and Challenges me Intellectually.



That to me is Chemistry



Boy�did I just Ramble on with �Mushy� Stuff�am I Blushing?



�Pay no Attention to the Man behind The Screen�!

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Posted : 31 Aug, 2011 06:36 AM

Okay here goes nothing.......



Yes chemistry is very important, but so is what your head and gut are telling you. What I've learned is that if you only listen to the heart, or just the head, or just your libido, individually, there are problems down the line. The best scenario is holding out for the person that rocks your heart, head, libido and your gut just has a good feeling about. If you settle for 1 out of 3, or 2 out of 3, it likely isn't "God breathed" (inspired) and maybe re-evaluate. Hope this helps :)

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Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 11:18 AM

To everyone here:



If a relationship is based upon 'CHEMISTRY'.



What happens when there is a marriage and after a few years the 'CHEMISTRY' is no longer there.



What will you be doing then?

WHat happens with the relationship.



If chemistry is necessary for a relationship,then i happen to be in a lot of trouble.



No wonder no one except Yeshua wants me,hahahahahahaha





Shalom

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