Author	Thread: Male Leadership
TravisjustTravis View Profile History	Male Leadership Posted : 17 Jul, 2011 10:07 PM Often I hear of girls wanting to begin a relationship with a guy who understands that the male is supposed to lead. But some girls dont want a guy leading them until they get married. How is a guy suposed to obey GOD and lead when some girls dont want to follow. (how I handel the sitution is that I follow GOD and if a girl chooses not to follow...well I'll follow GOD) Post Reply
View Profile History	Male Leadership Posted : 6 Aug, 2011 06:54 PM I found this post when I was searching for male leadership in a Christian relationship. I didn't find much on it. Perhaps there are some books out there on this subject. I think Christian women desire a male to be the leader because we desire Christ in our lives. Since we are made to be responders, the male must be careful to lead in the right way. Even if a female flirts a little, it doesn't mean that she wants to sleep with a guy. A guy can cause a woman to follow if he stays strong and doesn't arouse a females emotions by kissing, touching, etc. He needs to pray at the beginning of a date, incorporate Gods Word and God's promises and show his date who she is in Christ. He needs to try and give her more of a hunger for the Lord then for him. No Christian woman will really respect a man who causes her to focus on the wrong things. Sex before marriage can destroy a relationship. It can keep you from getting to know a persons soul, keep you from knowing a person in the right way. Both men and women are responsible but remember that the woman is the responder and he should watch out for her true needs. May God help us in all ways to put Jesus first. His grace is sufficient. He is a very present help in the time of need. If we lose our lives to follow him, we will find them. He is all we need. He can make us content in whatever state we are in. If single don't need to seek marriage. We are complete in Him as well. Time is short and we must forget good and bad alike and press on for the prize. Our inheritance is not from this world.So we needs to seek him and his kingdom, not houses, mates, children but Him for He needs to have preeminence in all things. Jesus the lover of our souls. Post Reply
View Profile History	Male Leadership Posted : 6 Aug, 2011 10:16 PM Hi there, I found your post and this Christian dating site when I was searching for male leadership in a Christian relationship. I didn't find much on it. Perhaps there are some books out there on this subject. I think Christian women desire a male to be the leader because we desire Christ in our lives. Since we are made to be responders, the male must be careful to lead in the right way. Even if a female flirts a little, it doesn't mean that she wants to sleep with a guy. A guy can cause a woman to follow if he stays strong and doesn't arouse a females emotions by kissing, touching, etc. He needs to pray at the beginning of a date, incorporate Gods Word and God's promises and show his date who she is in Christ. He needs to try and give her more of a hunger for the Lord then for him. Not many Christian woman will really respect a man who causes her to focus on the wrong things. Sex before marriage can destroy a relationship. It can keep you from getting to know a persons soul, keep you from knowing a person in the right way. Both men and women are responsible but remember that the woman is the responder and he should watch out for her true needs. May God help us in all ways to put Jesus first. His grace is sufficient. He is a very present help in the time of need. If we lose our lives to follow him, we will find them. He is all we need. He can make us content in whatever state we are in. If single don't need to seek marriage. We are complete in Him as well. Time is short and we must forget good and bad alike and press on for the prize. Our inheritance is not from this world.So we needs to seek him and his kingdom, not houses, mates, children but Him for He needs to have preeminence in all things. Jesus the lover of our souls.:angel: Post Reply

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