Author	Thread: How wary are you when you see "Separated" as a status?
Admin	How wary are you when you see "Separated" as a status? Posted : 9 Jun, 2011 05:30 PM What do you ladies think? My divorce is a done deal, I care about my "wife's" well being and we are going to stay married until she and her fiancee are married...by the end of the year, so that I can carry her on my insurance. She has had some serious health problems and I could never leaver her without insurance. How wary would you be to start even a frienship with a man who is still married, but is going to be divorced? I am sure that I want to marry again, and I miss having a partner in my life to share things with. But I feel that most women would be afraid to "take a chance" on a "married" guy. Ladies, please tell me your feelings on the matter? Peter Post Reply
View Profile History	How wary are you when you see "Separated" as a status? Posted : 12 Jun, 2011 07:33 AM I aapreciate the honest replys. I am glad to hear that I am not so physically repulsive or that I seem such a loser in my profile, that I do not generate any interest. My wife informed ME that she is no longer in love with me and has met someone else. I wanted to try and work things out...felt obligated to do so; but she was unwilling. She is "engaged" to this other "gentleman", who conincidentally is in training to be a Methodist pastor. They are presently attending church functions together and nol one knows that she is still married. (By the way this will be the fourth marriage for each of them). This was my first marriage, and I had fully intended on only being married once. Anyway, that ship has sailed. We were married in a civil ceremony. Her first marriage was in a Baptist church. My priest who is on the annulment committee tells me that when I go through the annulment process, I am ALMOST surely going to have it granted, due to the circumstances (he said that he cannot of course, guarantee it, but felt pretty confident given the circumstances. I on the other hand am trying to be honorable and take care of my obligations to her even though I have been rejected personally. I mean she IS the mother of my child, and we were once in love, I cannot do things any differently on my part...it would be wrong. Unfortunately, I have been made to realize by the members of this forum that there is going to be a built in prejudice against me do to my status until it changes. Therefore I am just going to have to sit here lonely until I can finish "doing what is right"...and possibly beyond. I know that God has better things in store for me, but right now I am SO discouraged I cannot evn expres my feeling on the subject. Thank you all for your honest opinions...God Bless you all! Peter Post Reply

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