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Ladies what`s more romantic?
Posted : 1 May, 2011 03:41 AM

Ladies what`s more romantic?

Dressing up nice and going out to eat together at a nice resturant with a candle light dinner and just eat and stare into each other eyes.

Or

Having your guy make, prepare, and serve you dinner at his place with good conversation.

This would be a second or third date thing

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bcpianogal

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Ladies what`s more romantic?
Posted : 1 May, 2011 05:50 AM

Dinner at his place. I'm more of a conversationalist than an eye-starer!

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Ladies what`s more romantic?
Posted : 1 May, 2011 07:20 AM

Well that's me stuffed; unless you count cheese on toast as cooking a romantic meal...



Mind you, I used to make some mean ice-cubes. Or at least I did until I lost the recipe.:laugh:

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Ladies what`s more romantic?
Posted : 1 May, 2011 09:10 AM

Something he planned and did himself would be that much better, but either one is really good.

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 09:57 AM

Both can be romantic. When a guy takes the time to prepare a meal for his lady friend, I find that special and romantic.

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Ladies what`s more romantic?
Posted : 1 May, 2011 10:42 AM

Okay, this is gonna be weird but I'm going to have to answer ..... neither. :rolleyes:

I'm not much for super fancy and expensive restaurants; especially when initially dating someone. What I enjoy more is very simple and casual places to eat- where the man doesn't have to spend a fortune just to buy me dinner. My focus is on enjoying his company and getting to know him. The more I'm enjoying him ... the greater the chance is that I'll forget what I'm eating anyway! Since it's the 2nd or 3rd date, I might still be a bit nervous with someone- and all that dressing up and fanciness would ramp up my nervousness! :excited: Casual and simple is better for me.

The second choice would be romantic- but I wouldn't feel as though the relationship would be at the "I'll-come-over-to-his-place-and-he-can-cook-me-dinner" level by the 2nd or 3rd date.

I definitely think the idea would be an awesome and romantic idea for a guy to do for someone he's dating- but later in the relationship ... not on the 2nd or 3rd date. :glow:

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 10:48 AM

I honestly would not want to do either by the second or third date. That is too soon for staring into each other's eyes and being in love.



I feel it takes at least 6 months of dating to get to know each other good enough where you feel you are compatible and in love like that. :laugh:



Then, after really knowing each other good enough to commit? I prefer to let him chose and surprise me! I would expect him to ask me to dress for a special occasion and the dress and heels will be out! :rocknroll:

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 11:06 AM

I was going to say, cooking a meal for her would be romantic, but not a very safe idea while dating. On the second or third date would be too soon to be alone with someone, too risky. And, for those who want to avoid temptation, being alone before marriage can be too much of a risk.



If you want to impress her, wait till you are ready to introduce her to your friends and cook a meal for the group.

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 01:05 PM

I agree with what all of you are saying about the 2nd or 3rd date being too soon for having dinner at his place...but there were only two choices to pick from! We need a third option!

Perhaps this would be a good third choice: he could plan a low-key outing (in a public, yet quiet, location) that would allow him to still either show off his culinary skills, or allow him to bring along something from his (or the girl's) favorite take-out restaurant. That would probably be more romantic for the 2nd or 3rd date!

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 01:52 PM

First of all, thanks BCpianogal, I agree with you. Yes, I understand what you all are saying, but we were just answering Victory's question. Not a whole lot of thought went into it, at least from me..:glow:

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Posted : 1 May, 2011 07:38 PM

Making something himself is WAY more romantic! Who wants to sit around in a stuffy restaurant? Not me :)

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