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DEEDEE72

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 05:04 AM

Ladies,



What do you think of a guy who asks you to call him for first contact?



Personally to me it is a turn off

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 05:08 AM

Why don't I call you and we can discuss this :ROFL: :ROFL:



Seriously though, if you are going to do internet dating, then I think you need to get used to getting to know each other a little bit first through messaging. If you don't like to type, then online dating might not be for you.

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 07:06 AM

I don't know...I think I'd be more comfortable if the guy called me. If he is asking me to call him because he's too chicken to call me, that's not a good sign. If he's trying to make me feel more secure or safe by allowing me to block my number when we talk, I guess that would be ok...but by the time I agree to a phone conversation, I would hope that I'd trust him enough to at least give him my cell phone #!

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 07:08 AM

Oh, but if it's a "first contact" sort of thing, I don't think that phones even need to be involved. When two people meet on an online dating site, they need to keep the contact online for a while...exactly how long to take before the first phone call depends on the two people and how things are going online.

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Tulip89

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 07:11 AM

Well, I DO live in Atlanta.....I'm sure he's a very nice guy and that he'll make someone out there very happy, but um...I just got out of a relationship and I need to take some time for myself before I'm ready for another relationship or something I think....

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 09:15 AM

I'm old fashioned..so..I feel if he wants to talk to me, he should call me and take a chance.

So many men wont take the lead in fear of rejection or in fear of something, who knows...but I'll pass on those.

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 09:46 AM

Personally ; I would think he must be gay. Yes that would be a complete turn off for me also!



Hmmm...maybe he just wants to buy a horse? Perhaps I should re-think this.

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 09:55 AM

In an online setting I PREFER the guy to ask me to call him. It allows me to retain some control, and if I call him, I can always block my number... just in case he isn't what he appeared to be in IM and messages.

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 25 Oct, 2010 04:45 PM

To all.....



Whoah...this dating stuff is exhausting.....who- what- when where- and how.....and how come....my head hurts



Makes me want to go gack to elementary school when you got that note in class that said, "Do you like me?" Circle yes or no....:laugh:





Do I detect some sarcasm with you gentleman? :nahnah:





Peace Out

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 26 Oct, 2010 09:28 AM

1st contact an wants my tele# ???...kinda puttin the cart afor the horse...a lady needs be cautious. I agree with River on this...Im old school also...so ifin he be interested ( after chattin here a bit )...he should ask for the # and dont be shy bout it...xo

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WHAT DO YOU THINK OF A GUY WHO ASKS YOU TO CALL HIM
Posted : 26 Oct, 2010 05:52 PM

First contact as in we've been IM'ing for awhile and now he asks you to call him, or first contact as in suddenly getting an IM from someone you don't know, saying, "call me"?

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