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Admin	No Talking! Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 11:13 AM What is it women like talking about exactly? It seems like all the ones I send something out to... well I don't really know what they're thinking or expecting. Post Reply
Brandy774 View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 03:39 PM That is a loaded question as there is no right or wrong answer. It really depends on the woman. Normally most profiles will give you a start point. Open ended questions are always good. However unless you like playing 21 questions ...questions that can be answered yes or no are a bad idea. Easy opener...ask her what her favorite bible quote is. Ok I am dear abbyed out have fun Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 07:10 PM Reading the profile and asking a question about something in it is always good. Or just making a nice comment about something you read in her profile ("I really like the way you talked about your job. You sound like you really like what you do.") Other questions you could ask to get responses would be to mention something you did, and ask her about it. ("I went to see Toy Story 3 with some friends recently. I really liked it/didn't like it. Have you seen it?") Ask her about her church, her denomination, her pets, what school she went to. I don't ask about fave Bible verse in a first or second message, myself. We like to talk about things that interest us, so see if you can get a clue from the profile text, or pictures, on what that might be. Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 24 Jun, 2010 04:42 AM i really if you can touch areas of common interest, would be a definite opener to getting things going. if i'm understanding the question right. rach Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 24 Jun, 2010 01:24 PM Speak the truth and it will sent you free. Brandon, Brandon, Brandon what am I going to do with you? Go to dating stories and experiences and read the why come's and put a post there.You will learn all about women there.Women write many why comes. Us few guys write why comes and need a little guy help. See the fishing post.Fill it in. Meal time post, fill it in.The ladies will get to know you.They will send you many emails.:hearts::party::dancingp: Brandon after he follows my advice, :hearts::hearts::hearts: My advice is good.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 24 Jun, 2010 02:21 PM Hey Brandon, Good ta see ya...Well...women like ta talk bout all kinds of stuff...It all depends on thier interests...So...refer to thier interests...Ifin ya got similar interests...all the gooder ta get started on a conversation... Best of GOD's Blessins to ya always...Keep the Faith...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 01:54 AM Thanks all, but I already do these things, with the exception of the 'why comes'. lol. too much reading for me. I guess I'm just wondering if it's me they reject or my messages or both i dunno. Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 06:09 AM Brandon, it is really hard to get across via black words on a white page an individual personality. All the interaction we have face-to-face gets lost, and you are reduced to just words. So, work on that. Practice. Ask advice from trusted people on what you are sending - give examples, and then listen to the feedback. If you use online dating, those black words on a white page have to capture attention and get noticed, and that is not always easy. Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 09:16 AM Ja. I agree. Alot of context does get lost online. Post Reply
View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 10:31 AM truthfully, what a woman likes talking about depends on the person she is having the conversation with. if you are a love interest, anything you say will be interesting. if you are her mother, she will love talking about her experiences, friends, her life basically. i guess you can imagine the other people on the list of conversation, :laugh: you should take into account that not all females are created equal, i know how it sounds but it is the truth! some are rose buds, some may be in full bloom.. or they may be a different flower all together. pick your "poison" and stick with it. p.s with women, it's not about your attraction to us it's about ours to YOU(your personality etc), considering you are the pursuer. you can't make it, you can't fake it; it just is. imo anyway Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	No Talking! Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 11:55 AM Brandon, I've seen you around long enough to believe that you truly want to honor God with your life. Therefore, you (should) be looking for someone who wants to honor God with her life. I've read profiles that say that they want to find a woman that "is so immersed in God that you have to seek God to find her." I think this works both ways. Women looking for a Godly man will want to talk about God. Tell her about your devotions. What ministry is she involved in at her church? Does she do community service? I believe it was Arch, who said on a different thread, "be who God wants you to be and He will bring her to you." GREAT advice! Rose Post Reply

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