Author	Thread: the good guy
jake22 View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 07:51 AM Here is something i have been wondering lately. Why is it that girls im attracted to aren't attracted to me. im an extremely nice gentleman, and it seems like most of the girls im attracted to on here have gon through difficult relationships. i understand them wanting the supermodle guys with big muscles and blue eyes. but i don't know they would continue going after the same type of guys that keep hurting them when they know there are som nice really good guys out there that treat them like ladies and not sex objects. I guess im just getting tired of seeing the same old thing and hearing the same type of girls complaining about how bad they've been treated by guys! Can someone help enlighten me so i can maybe understand from your perspective? Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 10:24 AM Hello Jake!! :waving: What kind of girls are you attracted to? There are plenty of people (both men and women) that aren't healed from their past relationships. It's my opinion that healing needs to happen before another structurally sound relationship can begin in most cases. Pray for these people and befriend them, but guard your heart so you don't get hurt in the process. Welcome to the forums! T Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 12:28 PM I think that I would really aim for someone that didn't complain about the bridge in the past. If she is confiding in you about her past relationships then your only going to be a friend image to her. I would probably ask myself what I am looking for and what am I waiting for? You cant make yourself be better than someone else in her past if she isn't willing to move on. Sounds like she is still in love with the last past guy. Take a quick check up on your own thoughts of who you really want in your life. Watch out for the signs and be patient. Its not you its just not going to work no matter if you were the nice guy with all the muscles. Post Reply
Hayley2020 View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 05:26 PM ok. I just have to say that MAYBE its time you tried talking to different kinds of women instead of the SAME KINDS OF WOMEN. You said you keep going after the same type of ladies??? There is your problem. The question is, WHY do you keep doing that???? Good luck. Hayley Post Reply
Prodsnapper View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 05:51 PM Jake, most women are attracted to the bad boys because they spark their interest on an emotional level. They're unpredictable, they're spontaneous, they don't care what others think, they're confident. Women are attracted to a challenge and some guys aren't easy to tame, it works in their favor. Pick up a few traits of attraction without becoming that bad boy. Move and live with confidence, try new things, don't let situations rattle you, always be on control. Don't be needy & clingy, don't seek approval from others. Women aren't as superficial as men, they care more about how you make them feel. Most nice guys don't trigger that attraction, some learn how. Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 06:21 PM dear snapper, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 07:35 PM Jake, The right woman will not want to change you I used to be attracted to the "bad boy" when I was your age, but I wasnt a christian. I think it's just something that we have to outgrow. We have to realize that we truly deserve to be treated like a princess. Patience ;) Love n blessings, Riveroflife Post Reply
jake22 View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 1 Mar, 2010 08:47 PM thanks for that i needed to hear that Post Reply
Prodsnapper View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 04:54 PM Jake, It's a law of nature; you can't do the same things & get different results, some change is necessary. It's not about changing for someone else, it's about being your best self. I'm sure you weren't attracted to every girl you've met, you were attracted to certain girls with certain looks & qualities. We can't always help our looks, we can help our qualities. Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 05:15 PM Let me tell u bad guys r a joke they have nothing on a real christian man i am saying that because i use to be a bad girl bad boys are a joke! a lot of them don't want to do anything with there life the want to sell drugs and sleep with different women a lot of women don't want to open there eyes to the truth give me a good guy that not boring and like to have fun :yay: :yay: :peace: :applause: :dancingp: Post Reply
View Profile History	the good guy Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 07:34 PM yes, prod that's good Post Reply

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