Author	Thread: Being ignored
gentleman4him View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 07:43 PM Hi. I am relativley new to this site and have one question for the ladies. Why do so many women ignore private messages? I have sent many polite, thoughtful messages to women on this site. and 95% have ignored my messages. Anyone have an idea as to why? I don't think im that ugly lol. Or is that normal for dating sites? Thanks for any replies. :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:09 PM Hello gentleman. The reason may be..... the profile is no longer active. One of the downsides to this site is that you can't tell (there is no indication) on whether the person behind the profile ever accesses the site. Or how old the profile is. Keep trying, and good luck! Post Reply
gentleman4him View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:38 PM That is a good point. Thank you! Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 07:04 AM Some people are rude, and some don't use the account anymore. Under "Sent MSG", you can see if they read your message. That might give you a clue as to whether or not they still log on and check messages. This is typical for all of the dating sites that I've been on. I don't know why. But remember, all you need is for that one special person to answer your email....you don't need answers from everyone! If someone doesn't answer your message, you can assume that she's not Miss Right. Best of luck! Post Reply
gentleman4him View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 07:56 AM Hey thanks a lot for your input. I thought it was rude too! Your right about that one special person. Thanks again! Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 12:04 PM dear gent, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 02:02 PM Guys, it's dating website. Not just chit-chat place. People here are looking for the right match. And I think from the beginning everyone already has criterias for this person he or she is looking for. Like age, interests, denomination or other stuff. And if you don't match this criteria it doesn't mean you're ugly or people are rude. For myself, I feel better when person don't answer my msg, than if he sends me polite "sorry i don't think we're a good match" or if he send me msgs but don't think I could be his right one. Do you know what I mean? I think it's understandable. Anyway, I'm sure all is under God's control. And if somewhere here is my right one - he will answer or will write first. Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 05:05 PM Hi Gentileman I took a look at your profile to see what may be the problem. Wow! First of all you say that you are going through a divorce. Personally as a God fearing woman I would not go there until divorce is final, you are still liegally married. I think that is the major factor you are not get any responses. I pray the Lord blesses you with a speedy divorce so you can get on with your life. Love7 Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 06:49 PM dear larissa, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 05:56 AM GosIs...brings up a good point. It takes a while for emotions to "settle" and for you to "trust" what you are feeling. So...it would be understandable for some women to be "leery" about getting in "the middle" right now. I do believe you are the right site. There is a plethora of Wonderful...Strong...Loving (and Wackily Funny) Women here. God Bless! Steve Post Reply
gentleman4him View Profile History	Being ignored Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 12:27 PM Thanks to you all for the wonderful advice! I feel my questions have all been answered. Post Reply

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