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skinnywhiteboy

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 12:50 PM

When you ladies examine a man, what do you like him to be, physically, in relation to you? Ie: Taller, heavier, shorter, skinnier etc...

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 04:13 PM

He has to be taller than me...just because I'm not gifted in the height area....God thought small on the height scale when it came to me :) So just as long as he is taller than me so that he can reach the stuff on the top self all is good :)

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 04:33 PM

I like him to be at least a little taller...but I'm short, so it's not hard to find someone taller than me! Ideal height would be between 5'10" and 6'2".

I like him to be of average size. I don't mind if he's a little heavier than I am or if he's a little thinner than I am. As long as he's not morbidly obese or skin-'n-bones, I don't care.

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 06:51 PM

I prefer a man who is at least 2" taller and no more than a foot taller than I. I'm short, so it is not hard to find a man in that range. Say, 5'4" to 6'3".



I don't mind extra weight, actually I prefer it. Within healthy parameters, of course. Say, no more than 40-50 pounds overweight. As long as he exercises regularly than a little extra weight is fine with me.

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 09:59 PM

At least taller. I really want to look up to my man. I guess though, not ever having a shorter man than me, don't know what it might me like! :rolleyes:



Since I want and hope to look up to him for leadership, I kinda want to "Look Up" to him as well! HELLO... seeking something > or = to 5'7! :yay:



The other... weight, health restrictions, physical deformities, take the back burner for me. It is the heart and spirit of the man along with the height :goofball: ....oh well. God might have other plans though!!



~ GraceMae

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skinnywhiteboy

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 12:41 PM

Grace mae, good attitude!!!!!! I'm with you on the physical deformities, they don't matter to me at all!!!! But way to step up to the plate!!!!!!

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 02:57 PM

Amen Sister Grace...GOD Bless ya...Ya hit that one outa the park....:bouncy:...xo

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 06:21 PM

Know what Gracemae? I want to take this one step further now--You ever date someone with a disability? If No one answers this question this deep in another thread, I may ask it as again as a brand new question. But Ladies: have you ever dated someone with a "disability?" Any hardships? Disguised blessings? Any input or advice?

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 06:30 PM

dear skinny,, hey man good question..

about the disabilities..

ya see i could call myself disabled.. my ole body has been run through the ringer hehe.. but i prefer to look at myself as able. just not able to do as much as i used to could.. hehe



but id have no problem with seeing someone who was able and just coulnt do as much as they used to..

or if you wanna put it in other terms someone whos disabled..



i myself wouldnt disqualify someone for that reason.. although there are some that would..

and i aint knocin them.. as everyone has their preferences..

ole cattle

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Posted : 17 Feb, 2010 06:46 PM

Disabilities? Ummmm.... no, not that I can remember. I have dated men with scars and some who had trouble speaking (stumble, stutter a bit) but nothing as obvious as, say, being in a wheelchair. It would depend entirely on the man's personality if I did end up dating someone who was disabled. If he was the right man I don't think it would matter.

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Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 11:10 AM

Disabilities: It would depend on the disability. Some things would not bother me at all, like a speech impediment, misshapen limb, missing limb, etc. I'm ashamed to say that some things would bother me greatly though, like significant paralysis, mental disability (beyond a basic learning disability...I'm talking major psychological problems or something like downs syndrome), or social disability. Some disabilities can vary, for example cerebral palsy. I know two people with cerebral palsy. One leads a normal life and has a decent job and a wife and kids, but the other is unable to even care for himself, let alone lead a normal life.

But my decision to date or not date someone with a disability is basically personal preference. If a disability caused me to be less attracted to a person, I would not date him. For me, the far more important question is "How would I handle it if the person I married suddenly became disabled?" In that case, I would NOT leave the person. I would love him and take care of him, no matter how hard it might be.

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