Author	Thread: why wont you say your not interested?
selflessshay View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 9 Feb, 2010 08:16 PM Ive been online dating for over a year and not one girl will tell me ther not interested or something. Intead you ignor me and say nothing. Witch is more rude saying nothing or not interested or something? Do men do the same thing? i always respond to EVERY question and fisrt message and ill tell you why i dont think it will work between us if you ask. Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 9 Feb, 2010 09:02 PM it's hard to believe you have not caught one nibble after a year on this site, is that what you are really saying? Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 11:17 AM For many different reasons people don't respond, but its not something that should work you up. Relax, and just enjoy whatever this site may or may not bring you. Post Reply
selflessshay View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 06:37 PM I havent been on this site for a year, ive talked to several people. you didnt ansewer the questions Post Reply
selflessshay View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 06:40 PM Im not worked up just to the point. you didnt answer the questions either Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 07:02 PM I can tell you that both men and women have this problem. I don't know that anyone has a specific answer. On this site, since it is free, one of the problems is that you have no way of knowing how active a profile is. Maybe the person you winked at no longer logs in? Regardless -- you are right. It is rude behavior. Especially on a Christian site people should have better manners. As to why girls might not tell you they are not interested? I can only guess. Perhaps they don't know what to say. They don't want to hurt your feelings. Perhaps they think they will respond later and then forget. You respond to every wink and email - good for you. You are being a gentleman. Hang in there, pray about it, and keep trying. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 08:04 PM sorry, my bad. i would not say i am not interested because by not responding it would have manifested itself into an action. ive heard that actions speak louder than words. i may not respond because i do not think it is worth the energy. i may not think it is worth the energy because of ...the tone of the email, the impression of your profile, maybe even your pictures. that said, i would reply for the very same reasons, life is funny that way. nyanda p.s you say to the point, i say quick tempered :nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 08:30 PM so just because you answer EVERY message, that's how everyone should do it? sounds like you have control issues you need to work out and I'd imagine your profile on dating sites or your attitude in messages turn off people. Post Reply
View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 06:11 AM This site has a pre-message that says I am not interested. It is a polite way of saying something. Also,I have found the people on this site are the most friendly. I get more respnoses here than other sites. Even the more I am not interested messages.Dennis:peace: Post Reply
ShrewdDove View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 05:09 PM Everyone has their own preferences and their own methods of dealing with situations. I met a guy online that I met in person for a casual hang out. He took it as a date, and it made me very uncomfortable. I felt so uncomfortable, in fact, that I stopped talking to him, and wouldn't return any of his attempts at communication. What am I supposed to say? "You creep me out"? "I was too nervous and/or polite to end our 'date' when I was starting to feel weird"? There's really no nice way to say that you're just not that into somebody. Feelings inevitably get hurt. Post Reply
selflessshay View Profile History	why wont you say your not interested? Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 07:34 PM Thank you Godslamb, Nyanda, dgrimater, Shrewddove for your responses. I would say to you shrewd dove you should just tell them your not interested. I will say to you loonyk, First off its ask a Girl, r u a girl? Your not even answering the simple questions again. Stop attacking me and acting like you no me. And yah if you click and read the message you should be able to click im not interested, I would imagine at least half the people could do that., but ive come across none. Post Reply

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