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Admin	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 06:53 AM So, this whole internet dating is pretty new to me and I may not totally understand how it works but I need some help. I have made a profile, I have sent out some pretty genuine messages, the girls look at my profile but I never get any responses. I was wondering if there is something on my profile that is scaring girls off or if there is certain stuff I left out of my profile that is scaring girls off? Brutal honesty is appreciated, don't worry I'm a big boy, I can handle it. Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 07:06 AM i dont see anything wrong with ur profile just give it time and dont take things to seriouly, and if they dont send u something and u r interested send them something they might just be a little shy. The main thing is to just have fun. I was on here for a while then i met someone and it didnt work out so i am back, the fourms r fun and u will meet some very nice people. Hope things start looking up for u. May God bless u. Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 09:36 AM dear teach,,, welcome to the forums.. and dear true ,welcome back.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 12:44 PM In my experience, eighty percent of the requests I send out are not responded to. I would be nice, polite even, to acknowledge receipt of a letter. It takes effort to write a letter. A person should show appreciation that their profile interested someone. But then some don't know how to say no politely and so just say nothing at all. And you need to take into account moods. There are days when I am at a loss for words. There are some many possible factors that you can drive yourself nuts trying to figure them all out. You just have to keep throwing out your line and hope for a dibble. Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 04:59 PM I totally agree with armytropper is saying you send so many replies out and no one responds they could at least tell you they are not interested or politely send you a response back or maybe some are shy to write back but whatever the situation maybe you just got to keep hanging in their until God sends you that special one. darla41 Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 07:39 PM I looked at your profile and it looks fine. You have a good selection of pictures and your text uses punctuation and good spelling. You might want to put something in there about future goals or plans or just dreams. Keep trying, asking the ladies open ended questions that require more than a "yes" or "no", and don't forget to mention something specific aout their profile. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 8 Feb, 2010 09:49 PM dear trooper, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 9 Feb, 2010 09:17 PM sometimes when someone is not interested, it is not worth the effort of replying. i know....it's harsh, but just think of it like this. guys try to talk to me all the time, on my way to school, running errands etc. should i stop and have a conversation with all of them or even respond to all of them? sometimes i just can't bother. (no strict comparisons...just something to think about) once your profile is a reflection of you then the one who is interested will not pass by. nyanda Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 09:35 AM you know man. I made the mistake of letting the no replies get to me, so I just made up my mind to just let God bring that special lady to my life so dont be like i was bro just enjoy the site as much as you can Post Reply
ShrewdDove View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 05:18 PM I don't know why people wouldn't write back to you. You sound fun to me. :) The only thing that would personally put me off from contacting you would be that I would see you as completely out of my league. In my head, you would be the guy I contact that would very politely just ignore my message and forgot I ever sent one. lol! Sometimes, though, people have legit reasons for not replying. People mentioned some of them above. If you're new, it does take some time for people to see your profile, especially if you're not from a huge area. You're probably already figured it out, but you can look at your sent messages and see which ones have and haven't been read. That helps me to distinguish who is politely ignoring me versus who hasn't had a chance to read my message yet. I hope you find what you're looking for, though! :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Get No Replies Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 06:32 AM about2teach, I used to send out polite, respectable emails that were a good page long until I realized no one would reply to them. I'm not sure if it was a case of shallowness on the receiving end, but for anyone on this site who claims to be a christian and sold out for Christ... Look for fruits of the Holy Spirit consistently!!! The first hint you get that he/she is juggling more than one person on here or not quite sure what he/she wants.. just block them and pray for them.. your heart does not need the ache. God bless you sir. Your brother, Brian Post Reply

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