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What do most men not know about women that you wish they did?
Posted : 28 May, 2025 05:37 PM

What would you want any potential spouse to know about you?

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Handyman62

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Posted : 29 May, 2025 08:02 AM

As a male I can tell you that if you get any answers they will be on the surface reasonable but when you dig down you will find they aren't reasonable or biblical because they always come with catches. Modern women want many things but aren't willing to provide much if anything in trade for what men are expected to give.

If you're willing to get educated about women, asking them here will definitely not get you honest answers from them because most are closet feminist. Sadly if you want honest answers you won't find them at most Church's either because the feminist mentality has taken them over also.

You need to go out into the world or directly to the Bible to find answers. I know this will go against most hard core Christians but out in the world is where you will find the most accurate information on why Women are acting the way they do. I say that because most people don't seem to be able to connect the dots when it comes to interpreting what is written in the word about both men and women's roles. I believe that's because it's hard to find very many Godly preachers or other teachers that are themselves able to interpret correctly or they are deliberately misinterpreting the scriptures.

The most accurate information is in the red pill movement. There appears to be one that is more into the politics and the other is into relationships between men and women and why women are the main cause of the failures in starting and keeping relationships. The other cause is simpy men that prop up the bad behavior of women.

The biggest problem with so-called Christian women is they're unwilling to give up the feminist ideals that have been given to them out in the world that are also in the Church now. Being submissive to their husband is out of the question. I know some will say they are submissive, but when queried about their submissiveness you will find that it's very limited. In other words the first thing she disagrees with then her submissiveness goes right out the window. That's because feminism has taught them that they're (among many other things) smarter and wiser than men and so they think they have every right to question their husband and often times threatens that it's her way or the highway rather then applying what the Bible say's about being submissive to her husband. In other words there's almost nothing Biblical that gives the women the right to destroy the marriage over a disagreement.

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Posted : 29 May, 2025 08:18 PM

What would you want any potential spouse to know about you?



Hhmm good question. I think it would be that I want to be known for me not just a role(s) I fill in your life. To care/like enough to want to know my likes/dislikes, strengths/ weaknesses, humor, smarts, what I enjoy etc. Once past the honeymoon stage, and things may feel routine, to have someone that enjoys you in the simplest of times/ways, rich/poor, and me them (a best friend). There's a lot of social media asking "what do you bring to the table"...That's fine I suppose, but I want a love that extends beyond income, roles, looks, a connection that exceeds all those things.

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Posted : 30 May, 2025 04:20 AM

I agree with freetobe.

Excellent answer!

I know there are Men that are willing to give their all to a woman they really love, in return she gives her all to him!

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Posted : 30 May, 2025 04:31 AM

You are a Young man and should able to meet a Young woman that loves you if not on this site, elsewhere in Life.

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2025 01:55 PM

I wish most men would know that I personally find someone attentive and caring. A man who shows me that he wants to spend his free time with me. Not in a clingy way. I have no problem with men having some independent time with friends of course. Ideas are maybe help me cook, want to go to the store with me sometimes invite me to go with you. It is very sexy to know a man wants me with him whenever possible. It might be difficult at first but once you get that companionship going it is heaven on earth. My beloved who passed taught me this. Also men if age makes things stop working. A woman who loves you truly won't care. They still want you to touch and kiss them as if everything is still working. Talking together, praying together, touching each other little or big. Just showing that you love.

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2025 01:10 PM

Lol, that you're going to need an interpreter?

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Handyman62

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2025 02:22 PM

Star730 us men already know women speak in a foreign language. There are men who understand the language women speak but when it gets interpreted women don't like it. Most women don't want men to know their meanings and prefer the many problems caused by men not understanding them so they have things to complain about and cause drama.

It could easily be solved if women made the effort to be more clear in what they say and their intentions, but somehow that's never considered. They would rather men read their minds and when they can't they get mad and make his life difficult just because he didn't get the completely obscure meaning she was trying to portray. Most women crave and create drama when there's not enough excitement in their lives.

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2025 03:36 PM

Handyman, I was married one time only to a man for 50 years until he passed on to the Lord. Trying to communicate with each other was some of our most frustrating times but some of our most humorous times too. We were a team, it was never me against him or him against me. Jesus and our guide. It was a blessing for both of us and that would describe my husbands thoughts also. I can't relate to your dim view, in my case anyway. It was good enough experience in marriage that I can inject a little humor into my memories and am happy to pass that along!

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Handyman62

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2025 04:19 AM

I applaud your 50 year marriage. But you're a woman of another time, a time when the outside influences of the internet and social media was just beginning and likely had significantly less negative influence on your marriage.

In our modern world social media has allowed Satan access to women's minds at an unprecedented level. Like Eve in the garden of Eden women are listening to Satan whisper in their ears. The things they are listening to are manipulating women's natural tendencies and personality traits to make the relationships with men increasingly difficult if not impossible. It's causing women to destroy their husbands and family's.

I get it that you don't see that. It's likely because you've lived a pretty sheltered life which is not a bad thing. But sometimes there comes a time to open up your eye's to what's really happening out in the real world. I'm not saying it's is your time or that it will ever be.

We may not be of the world, but we still have to live in it and I believe that we need to be thoroughly educated on what's going on out in the world in order to navigate it. The first step it to learn about the natural differences between men and women.

Knowing that should help men and women understand why God put men in charge of women. But because of the outside influences of Satan the new way of thinking is women are to be in charge and men are only to be used by women. Women have been given power over men that God never intended for them to have and all the relationship and family problems are directly related to that.

Many men don't understand what's going on and are bending over backwards to please women who aren't worthy of them which is only exacerbating the problem. Men need to stand up and reject feminist minded women even if it means being alone.

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2025 07:21 AM

Yes, I had plenty of on the job training about the difference between men and women. I don't disagree with your main point about feminism and I can see what's going on around me more than you know. I have a good friend that says she was too much of a feminist while married and that didn't work well at all. She knows I was traditional but I don't beat her over the head with it. She actually has a lot of respect for me. I pray the Lord will lead those that are seeking Him to fulfill their roles as husband and wife in a way that will honor and glorify Him and will be blessed in the doing so.

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