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Posted : 9 Aug, 2013 06:35 PM

On here, are you open to talkin to men your not physically attracted to...why or why not? and what would you rate me ...from a 1-10... Lol : )... jokingly..but interseted Lol...it might be some maturity in being comfortable what people may think of you..knowin that there honest opinion they may think your a 5 ...Lol : )...on a side note... if we don't leave that door open for someone we mightt not find that physically attractive we could miss out...

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teach_ib

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2013 07:01 PM

Yes, because looks are not everything...and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are many men who may have or think they have good looks that are shallow and egotistical. There are many men who may have average or less than average looks that are spiritually deep, knowledgeable, friendly.

The saying "you can't judge a book by its cover" applies here.

Plus, a conversation with someone does not equal commitment - we miss out when we limit ourselves to only those who meet a subjective criteria.

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2013 10:16 PM

"On here do you talk to men you're not physically attracted to?"



Yes dear I do.

Every once in a while a get inbox massages from guys I know foresure when looking at their physical looks from the profile photo, I know that i'd never go out with him even if I was here to fish for a boy friend.



I can't say enough how important is looking decent, clean & friendly in dating sites especially if one is fishing for a mate. Remember that we don't know you, we'll only know what you reflect of your self through looks & attitude when interacting with us in the chatt room.



Some fellows here from the inbox massages I receive every once a while, look angry & intimidative, some make funny faces on their pics that makes me laugh but after all I have no idea of how he looks like, can't even tell if I at least like him if I was to rate him based on he's appearance since I don't know him anyway.



To answer you question in short,

Yes I do interact with fellows i'm not attracted to physically, I always give a benefit of a doubt. Who knows I might just enjoy he's company inspite of how he looks, could have a fruitful & challenging conversation as one sentance leads to onother.



That's what I seek for beyond looks, someone who'll make me think as interacting with.



Have heared from qute ones too,

Whom I just had to end the conversation soon,

Felt like I was talking to a 5year old,

Even he's pick up line as he breaks the ice.

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2013 10:24 PM

Teach



Hello dear, how you doing?



Thank you so much for that inbox massage.

Should keep me posted when coming to South Africa again,

I'd really love to meet you inperson,

Plus Pretoria is not far from my resident.



Keep well my darling sister! :dancingp:

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 04:37 AM

ThruHim , Your cute.



You seem to be genuine and a good guy.



I am sure some good lady will attach her self to you soon.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 05:23 AM

LTM



He certainly is a cute somebody.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 05:38 AM

I used to hear guys complaining that their girls were to clingy. That is what we guys want a woman who will cling to us and stay by our side for life, right?



Isnt cleaving the result we are searching for?



I want my woman close by me and I miss her when we are not together just as she misses me. I am happy to give up my independence and give my life to another in marriage.



When we men find a good woman who will stay by our sides grab her up.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 05:41 AM

When I found my lady I knew she was a good faithful woman who would remain by my side and she has for all this time Faiths77.



Is a good faithful woman and I cherish her soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and I desire to honor her for all my life.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 05:23 PM

I couldn�t be physically attracted to a man I�ve not met. Not exactly the same thing but, I�ve not met you, so I can�t rate you�lol. Seriously though you are attractive, and have a creative element to you that in my opinion suggest you may have some interesting things to talk about. If I had a 20 something year old sister I�d let her know you were here.



You can meet someone that seems the perfect match for you online, finally meet them (and they look exactly like their pic-no games) and somewhere in the middle of your meal or whatever you find you have no chemistry. Guess I�m saying I wouldn�t bank everything on a pretty face. Honestly for me it starts with conversation and wit, that�s what makes me interested in checking out the rest.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 05:58 PM

yea...defintily like the old saying...it's what's on the inside that counts.... I didn't get no 1-ten ratin though Lol! : ).... the mature thing to do is to aways leave that door open....marturity...not superficial.....@ Christianartsy.... watch out for a sister for me : )

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 06:20 PM

Ok.. I'm stilling this from a profile I read.. it went something like this; don't be fooled by a photo, its only an image. Chemistry is the feeling you get when she walks in a room, the way she moves her hair, the way she smiles at your jokes, the way her hand feels in yours.. etc.. you can't get hat online..

Seriously Brother Tru.. I will be looking out...lol

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