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A "Genuine Christian" Guy Vs. "Fake Christian" Guy. How Can You Tell?
Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 09:01 AM

Hi everyone. It's been a while since Ive posted a thread on here.





Anyway,I've watched an old Christian movie about this guy who was pretending to be a Christian guy just so he could sleep with the Christian girl from his school. He was so good a pretending so much that not only did he asked his Christian friend some information about Christianity,but even as far as reading a book about living as a Christian and also looking up scripture verses in the Bible just to impress the girl to make her think that he's a Christian.



Now I know that it's only a movie,but in the real world that we live,how can you ladies tell that a guy is faking it?

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 02:20 PM

In your story the guy acted like a Christian so he can sleep with this gal.

Well, a Christian man dont act like that, so I would know him

right off the bat . He gave his self away by wanting to sleep with the lady before marriage.



I Corinthians 6 Flee Fornication.

Bible teaches against Fornicators.



I know when a man is serving Christ by his conversation with me on or off the internet. lol

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Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 03:43 PM

a (real) Christian is understanding, respectful, and compatsionate to everyone. While a Christian may not agree with what a person is doing or saying, a real Christian will listen carefully and respectfully to all, and treat others as he/or she wants to be treated.

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 08:40 AM

Well if he is doing it sleep with girls that should be a sign in by itself. But if a Christian gal takes interest in said character, she should already be looking at where he prioritizes his time. Regardless of his "act", one should still be able to find his true colors. Even in conversation.



My mom actually had a friend who went through the same situation. The man pretended to be Christian even through marriage just so he could sleep with her (a lot of trouble if you ask me). Sadly she was warned before, but didn't heed the warning and they soon got divorced. His act can't fool everyone.You just got to decide whether or not you want to listen or acknowledge the warning bells before the wedding bells. lol.

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 01:47 PM

If I've met a CHRISTIAN MAN that I was interested in or knew that he was interested in me, I would gladly do the following wether I HAD suspicions or NOT.



Example:



If he lived in the same area (state/city/borough...etc.) and attends a different church; I would:



A) play along with the situation. Allow him to "show off" his bible skills and ask him if he has any life experience regarding the verse or what he believes it means. :waving:



B) Ask him FIRST (can't stress this enough) how many times does he attend and if he has a position there (all the while smiling and encouraging). :excited:



C) SECONDLY, ask him what church is it that he goes to and then (to cover any doubts that he has after the question) tell him mine and what we do there. :bunny:



D) Invite him to hang out with me and a group of friends to play some sports (not knowing that there is bible study). :ROFL:



E) Finally, go to that church he claims to be in (without letting him know) and see if intact he goes there, is involved if he said he was, find out if they know his name (for this I would send my friend just incase they mention it to him and give him the wrong description).....:bouncy:



This will be done two weeks in a row. Each week I would ask him?

"So, how was church this Saturday/Sunday? What was God talking to you about?" (Only when HE approaches me). :party:



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I know most of you are thinking that I'm crazy, that you WOULDN'T put to much effort/energy into playing Sherlock Holmes, that I don't have instincts nor do I TRUST in the Lord.



WRONG LADIES. :nahnah:



I don't want to be eve (a deer in head lights) and allow a man (snake) to detour me from my garden of Eden (God my salvation)



See, the bible says:



(Genesis 3:1)"Now the serpent was more (astute/crafty/subtil) than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made."



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(Matthew 10:16) �I am sending you out LIKE sheep among wolves (non-believers). Therefore BE AS SHREWD (clever-smart-sharp-astute-sagacious-acute-sly) AS SNAKES and as innocent as doves."





Take heed and do it for your future ladies... LESSON LEARNED!



Jehov� bless you my sisters!

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 01:54 PM

If you ladies want to know what I would do if I was interested in someone online if he was interested in me, send me a message.



I won't post it out in the air! ;)

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 05:17 PM

Well I tried sending you a message on that but your age limit wouldn't let me get through LOL so moishe please message me I would love to hear your thoughts on this!!!



Discernment is the best we can have for it comes from the Lord!! And looking and listening to what is spoken and how :)

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 06:47 PM

I apologize to all who had been trying to reach me.



Allow me five mins from now.





God bless ladies!

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 07:34 PM

SMILEDL...



You must also change your age setting.

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 09:40 AM

Thank you ladies! It was wonderful on hearing your thoughts on this matter. It would be also wonderful if one of you have a ladies version of this subject for us guys in the "Ask A Guy" section since it's this is'nt a gender matter.



So if anyone is interested in seeing the movie that I've meantit's called "The Pretender" which was released by the Christiano Brothers in 1987. I'm not sure if it available for rent,but here's where you can purchase it: www.christianfilms.com/thepretenderdvd.htm



Take care everyone!

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 12:59 PM

Thank you so much mrwiseguy...



I was meaning to ask you the name of the movie and I will definitely look it up.



I enjoyed the thread and I will post one for the guys.



I'm sure it will be scandelously interesting.







God bless you my brother!

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