Author	Thread: HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ...
Admin	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 07:02 AM ... and Love Romance, Sex, and Being Creative ..." This is the new headline I decided to use as an inviting BAREFOOT BANNER for my loving, romantic, honest and fun profile, and I just wanted to share it with you here, and get some feedback from you on it. How do you like it as my new HEADLINE? Is it TOO DIRECT AND HONEST ... or not too honest and direct ENOUGH? I hesitated about including "If You Love Romance AND Sex and Being Creative", but, honestly, these ARE three of the things I LOVE, naturally, as a man, things that God created all of us to love enjoying with our mate, our husbands and wives, and definitely are important to me, that whoever is my future wife LOVE AS MUCH AS I DO as part of our blessed relationship, so I feel being HONEST about each of these five LOVES AND NEEDS up front is not inappropriate or should be offensive or a turn off to any of the gals who aren't just on here playing games and not seriously looking for a Christian husband who loves these things (for whatever reasons she has for not doing so). I know, it seems here, that some gals don't even want to HEAR the words "love sex" mentioned in a guy's profile or at the beginning of their "getting to know each other better" relationship, because of all of the guys out there and on here too, who seem to be ONLY interested in "ONE THING" in their relationships these days, rather than in ROMANCE and sex and ALL the other Barefoot Special Fun Things each person's heart and spirit, as well as, their bodies can experience and enjoy in a God-blessed, lasting love relationship as husband and wife loving God AND each other second ONLY to HIM!!! Anyway, I was just wondering what you thought about my new HEADLINE and why, and whatever feedback you might have for me on it and the situation us guys have with needing a wife to have sex wife, no matter what age we are, and whether or not we are physically-challenged in serving God as a loving, romantic, sexually-exciting, husband and spiritual leader in our love relationship with them as our wife? Love you all, and thanks for whatever feedback you have to share from your heart with me about these things. Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 08:19 PM I feel really, really dirty right now. Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 01:05 PM :stop::stop::stop::stop::stop::stop::stop::stop::stop: Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 02:32 PM I think those who want to avoid sex and speak of should seriously consider becoming a nun or a monk because whilst we still need to be separate and "holy unto the Lord" from how this world views sex, it's a also a gift from God that was meant to be enjoyed and shared between husband and wife. Making it out to be a tool of the devil (and make no mistake, he will use it where he can) is to call God's blessing evil and perverse. The bible says not to be unequally yoked and whilst we take this mostly in the context of wedding an unbeliever, it's also sage advice for lots of different situations (as proverbs shows). Being unequally yoked sexually causes divorce and infidelity, as a quick web search will show, so it's not wrong to seek someone who wants sex, and lots of it, if that is important to you. Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 06:47 PM Wasn't feeling dirty because of the sex, jsyk. Just the creepy fetish. Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 07:41 PM Your not showing much love towards the Lord if your fornicating all over the place, which he forbids. Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 07:46 PM Oh, and using that headline would turn many women away because it doesn't sound like you are looking for a holy pure relationship, and are willing to wait until marriage. It sounds like you are just wanting to fornicate, hense my first comment and reaction. But i read the rest and i THINK you mean having all that under wedlock correct? Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 1 May, 2012 06:44 AM Yep, Kelly, I SURE DO mean having all of that UNDER CONTROL!!! I'm looking for a WIFE to have HOLY SEX with in marriage like God create us to do when He created women for men to have an unconditional love relationship has helpmates with that is blessed by the HOLY DESIRES in their hearts for ROMANCE AND SEX, not only to procreate but to know the joys of emotional and physical pleasure as a relationship gift from Him that is a blessing beyond being a way to have children and make families that continue to repopulate this world. We're ALL supposed to be here on CDFF to find a husband or wife to be our sex partners, not to find someone to have sex with OUTSIDE of marriage, like so MANY other dating/relationship sites out there that are non-Christian sites do. So ... my new HEADLINE has THIS in mind and heart, nothiing ELSE ... it should be obviously assumed that I'm being honest and direct about "loving the Lord, loving to go barefoot, and loving romance, sex and being creative" in ONLY the context of the type of gal who would be the BEST MATCH for me as a WIFE who LOVES each of these LOVES as MUCH as I do. How many of these 5 headline LOVES do you and the other gals looking for husbands to share them with share with me, Kelly? Love, as Your Brother in Christ, Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 1 May, 2012 06:55 AM Bain, I HATE that you consider my love of going barefoot and the word "BAREFOOT" a "FETISH"!!! To me, brother, it is NOT a so-called "FETISH", but merely a special love that is unique to me and others, a part of the uniqueness and joy in my life that our Lord gave me as one of His special blessings for my heart and life!!! :dancingp::yay::applause: Honestly, Bain, I was hurt by your lack of sensitivity and understanding in posting such a thoughtless reply. But I forgive you for doing so. Now, please share your heart in a more constructive and encouraging way with me in answering my question about my headline and my explaination for deciding to create and use this new headline. Love, Your Brother in Christ, Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 1 May, 2012 06:58 AM Thanks, djk255, for your thoughtful, understsnding reply. My heart agrees with YOUR heart 100% about everything pointed out. Love, Your Brother in Christ, Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	HEADLINE: "If You Love The Lord, Love To Go Barefoot, ... Posted : 1 May, 2012 07:12 AM I like finding headlines that say looking for the love of my life, looking for the one, looking for a holy relationship, looking for a godly marriage, etc. The women you are looking for will most likely turn away from your profile as soon as they read sex because they will misconstrued that for someone who is looking for a wrong type of relationship. The women you are trying to avoid however, will read that and be interested. I know I'm young, but I know how a christian girl of purity looks at things. The wording needs to change. Sister in Christ, Kelly Post Reply

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