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Posted : 28 Apr, 2012 05:50 PM

Why would an ex girlfriend of mine deliberately talk to as many guys in front of me at work.Is she being mean or what.



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Posted : 28 Apr, 2012 07:07 PM

If she's your ex-girlfriend, I would encourage you to stop worrying about her actions or motivation for them. That ship has sailed.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2012 08:01 PM

Yeah,I agree with that but It does seem at times that she Is trying to be mean!



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Posted : 28 Apr, 2012 08:13 PM

Steve,

I kind of go along with what BainWinslow is saying to you. Try not to let it bother you so. I know, easier said than done. Well for whatever reason she has, she may be trying to get you a little jealous and to show you that other guys are paying attention to her. Try to move on. God bless you. :glow:

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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 04:28 AM

How long since the break up?



For how long has she been acting this way?

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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 06:26 AM

@iheartdogs.WeHave been broken up for over a year.

I am trying to move on.I must admit it bothers me to see her doing this,but,I also know that we could never be together.Although she claims to be a christian,I do not think this is the case.Her christianity is Prosperity gospel(wich I beleive is false teaching)I guess the hardest part is just being single.There are very few Christian females at my job or my church.



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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 07:14 AM

How long where you together?

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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 08:02 AM

Its hard to say. we did the on again off again thing for a peiriod of seven years.I know in my heart we will never be together.My christianity has taken me in a different direction than her.I see no signs of Christ in her life,except her talk of what God can give her or do for her.I really just wish I didnt work right next to her,but Ive been on my job for eleven years.I think God is using this somehow to teach me something,lol.......not sure what that is yet but it will hit me eventually.



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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 02:04 PM

Sounds like she's moved on and you're old news. I can't deny there might be some satisfaction in doing in front of you but then there might not be and she's under no obligation to pass up chances because you don't like it. Kinda sounds like that scene out of Spiderman 3 so you have my sympathy, but you need to move on yourself, and if you can manage it, be happy for her and help even. Don't let this become the start of bitterness - remember God will judge you on *your* actions and responses, not hers.



Chin up, Christian, respond with grace and do right because God sees all and rewards those who walk in His ways.

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Posted : 29 Apr, 2012 02:38 PM

Thankyou for the responses!:glow:

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Posted : 11 May, 2012 09:52 AM

Her embrace of the Prosperity Gospel shows an immaturity of faith, and her desire to talk to a lot of guys in front of you shows an immaturity of character. She is most likely doing it because she can and because she wants to get under your skin. The best thing you can do is let her wonder why it doesn't drive you crazy to see her doing it.

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