Thread: Okie Dokie Girls....Ya Think This Shoe Will Fit?
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Okie Dokie Girls....Ya Think This Shoe Will Fit?
Posted : 12 Sep, 2011 11:34 PM
Okie DokIe my Fellow Beleivers! Lets try this on for size!
Let me ask you this question. Do you beleive that little things can plant bad seeds of distruction which can distroy a relationship? I figure most of you will have to say of course yes! That said and known, do you also beleive we should should seek every little way to make sure our potential mate feels secure in the relationship and trusts us fully, rather then have doubts or feelingsof insecurity about the relation? I would reckon most of you again will say yes!
Ok now, keeping those things mind. Let me go into some detail so maybe you will understand my heart and the what the Lord has lead me to share with you. I know my last post came off a little strong to a whole lot of you...lol. Ok, that may be an understatement, but lets make light of it and press forward. The whole purpose of the post was that consealing things as simple as veiwing ones profile can plant seeds of doubt in a persons mind of us being dishonest, untrustworthy, and possibly consealing other things also Which even though we are being totally open and honest, those type of things can plant bad seeds of doubt and can do a lot of damage to a relationship and even distroy it.
The desire is growth, not distruction. To many times we get to trying to protect ourselves, etc... and do little things which can plant bad seeds and create big problems later on. I pray this makes sense that you now understand a little deeper what the Lord had placed uon my heart to share with you through my last post.The thing to must always keep in mind is to seek in everyway to do things that grow our relationships more and more. and be on guard against possible little things that may not seem like much at the time, but that plant bad seeds and possibly distroy it. No not all who conseal they veiwed your profile are liers, but it can be taken that way and so can other things we dont realize we do too. I just want to everyone to be aware of how things can appear. As much as we don't like being called a lier, or thought of in that sense falsely. We must all be on our gurad of how little things that seem simple and harmless can appear to others, even a potentiel mate.
you can stop birds nesting in your hair, but you can't stop them flying over your head. Or in the current situation, there will *always* be somebody who hears differently to what you intend. The question is, how much of your life do you want to spend trying to 'correct' them?
I just wish we got 6 pages of replies when it comes to prayer requests or building each other up 'cos then the Church might look like she should, rather than like the world...
I can see that you are making an Effort to be Better Understood and in that Light I will also consider this a �Fresh Start�. I must say that this Time you�ve come across much better. This is a Lucid�Clearer�More Easily Understood Presentation of your Point of View. You�ve taken Time and Effort in Choosing your Words and it Shows.
David�I Really do Understand where you are Coming From and what this �Complaint� of Yours is Based on. But�I must Submit to you that your Premise is Flawed.
(You Wrote) ��The whole purpose of the post was that consealing (sic) things as simple as veiwing (sic) ones (sic) profile can plant seeds of doubt in a persons (sic) mind of us being dishonest, untrustworthy, and possibly consealing (sic) other things also Which even though we are being totally open and honest, those type of things can plant bad seeds of doubt and can do a lot of damage to a relationship and even distroy (sic) it.� (End)
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(David) �We must all be on our gurad (sic) of how little things that seem simple and harmless can appear to others, even a potentiel (sic) mate.� (End)
David�the HUGE Flaw in your Premise is
�that you Consider EVERYONE that Views your Profile�A POTENTIAL MATE!
I Guarantee you that I Do Not Consider Myself a Potential Mate for you! Further More�if you�d Placed the Actual Photo of yourself (instead of that �Cute� Cowboy on a Horse)�you may not have gotten as many Views.
To put it as Sweetly as Possible ( I would Hate for anyone to Accuse me of Being Insensitive)�SweetHeart�while everything that you�ve said about Truth and Honesty in a Relationship is Correct�you�ve Based this Complaint on a
FALSEHOOD.
�Now�Come on Over Here�Ya Big Kalute! And let me give Ya a Big Hug!� �How about a Rub on the Belly!�
Seriously Sweetie�think about it. If Everyone that Looked at your Profile May Not Be A Potential mate�then Your PREMISE is Wrong.
�10-4�Big Buddy?�
�I Love Ya�Man!� One more bit of Advice�use Spell Check (when that little Red Line appears under a word�it just �Might� be Speeled Wrong. It will make you �Seem� so much Smarter.
:applause:
Anyway�see ya on �The Exit Ramp of LIFE!� �Look Out For Smokey!�
Also if the Varied Response on that Thread that you Referred to Tells Us anything...it is that if we Leave Things Up to Us�things will be Just Exactly What We Have Today�35,000 DIFFERENT churches Based on Scripture.
Wow��Birds In The Head� � Isn�t that a Rock band?
Or a B Movie about Birds that have Gone Berserk on a Military Base��Birds In The Head�...
How many times are you going to post the same thread? Until you get the responses you want?--LOL
- YOU came across as a pompous, arrogant loon in your last thread by moralizing about the use of a standard feature this site offers. You called everyone that uses the profile view masking option a LIAR. -LOL @ YOU coming "across a little strong".
- You insulted nearly everyone that replied to your post like a petulant child. When your idea was debunked for lacking any logic you didn't respond back on the merits of your own argument instead YOU chose to use that opportunity to personally attack the two women who had responded. You insulted them repeatedly by questioning their faith and their morals. - You owe them a huge apology for treating them so disrespectfully.
- Now you're regurgitating the same idea you had from the first thread trying now to soften your harsher position by saying, "Not all who conceal they viewed your profile are liars, but it can be taken that way...just want to everyone to be aware of how things can appear."
- Dude, the only one it appears this way to--IS YOU! This was all about YOU and your off-kilter thinking.
- Now you suggest by hiding our viewing of other peoples profiles is done to protect ourselves. HAHAH--why do you think the site owners allow this feature to be used?????? Of course it's done for protection! You're not suggesting anything anyone doesn't already know.
- You are very revealing in your post when you say this, "We must all be on our gurad of how little things that seem simple and harmless can appear to others, even a potential mate."
-Dude YOU are the ONLY PERSON on this site that this BUGS, lol. We get that--over and over WE GET THAT. No matter how many times you re-post this or how many times you re-rewrite this--WE GET IT!. You don't like women to be able to hide from your view--WE GET THAT! Boy do we GET THAT!
Well Folks I don't beleive you are undrstanding what I was lead to write or the purpose of it. The purpose of being a Christian is not about self, but about Christ and sharing his ways and truth with others. It is about humbling ourselves and opening up our minds to receive his truth. I see that right you are all more worried about looking at the topic and feeling attacked, rather then humbling yourselves to receive the a deeper truth of how you can be preceived by others which is the point here. The point is taking your eyes off yourselves and doing the things for just self, and realizing that others who dont know you or your heart could preceive you in a bad way reguardless weather you are bad or not. it is a deeper truth which the Holy Spirit showed me that I was sharing you. I only pray that you can humble yourselves to receive truth someday, other then just running around trying to point mine and others wrongs as you see them through your worldly thinking and ways. My writings were wrote in love, Yes! I was very direct with the first one because I knew how most people make light of the subject and only care about themselves, and dont care about how they are preceived and projecting an image of Christ as they say they do. The little things that you justisfy in your own minds and thinking do make a big difference wither you beleive it or not or care or not. I care about Christ and his truth and ways being what others see in me and through me. Thats why I saw this and shared in hopes you would too.
Thanks for the offer of prayer - the more the better!
As for the 35,000 different churches, that's what happens when you have a God who is as interested in a blind beggar as He is the king of a nation. God meets every person where they are, with what they need at that time, so it stands to reason there'd be so many slightly different viewpoints on minor doctrine. Of those 35,000 churches, I care not a jot if they are of Paul, Peter, or another disciple, as long as Christ is acknowledged and accepted personally as the only way to salvation.
The other option is God speaks to one person only and everyone goes by what they say, but even though that method was used in the OT (God raised up prophets), it's not the relationship God wants with His children.
ChicagosFinest....the post is obviously way above your head and intended for those who humble, open, and receptive to receiving the the truths of Christ and his ways. My posts were of a deeper nature because I seek deeper truths and understandings and desire to live for him and not self and promote Christ and not self. It is obvious that you do not desire anything of the Lord or his ways, moreless seek to understand them. I do however now ask you to please respect me and those who do the respect of that.
In otherwords you are a disrespecting harrassment....and you claim to be an officer of the law...go check yourself and your own actions.
